Let me try this on you for size. Then I want to mention Trump.
You marry a female and several months later she enters a store and steals from the store.
Do you expect to be prosecuted for what she did?
Trump did not lead anybody into the Capitol. He was several miles away. And he had no system to control those at the Capitol. Even so, he issued, and we have video proving he did, a heartfelt request for the protestors to not commit violence, do no damage, do not break laws, yet the Democrats fully intend to prosecute him as would the law in the case of your criminal wife. Bet you would fight for your wife.