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I have 2 friends (married couple) that I've been friends with for 15 years. Lets call them S and J.

I met them through S's sister who was a friend at the time. And we've done tons of stuff together over the years and been invited to some of their family get togethers. They claimed I was indeed, a part of their family.

They even helped me out a great deal when I had to go into the hospital a few years ago.

Thing is, they are Democrats. And until now, I didn't know how die hard Dem they are.

S called me tonight to tell me we can no longer be friends because of "whats in the White House".

I had a friend since 1999 do this to me in 2015, as she also turned out to be a die hard, brainwashed Dem.

With me being in my 60's now, and all of my family gone, as well as my other friends who've passed away in the last few years.......I only have 2 friends left now. One tries not to be political at all, and the other is a die hard Rep.

So, I'm kind of dizzy right now from our conversation.
Bascially S told me there's no way in hell she can get over me being a part of the "Nazi Party", although she could not explain to me what "Nazi" stuff she is talking about. She just states "read your history books again".

She said if I ever need help, she will be glad to help out, but we just cannot be friends anymore because she hates having to "hold it in" when around me. And I've NEVER told her to NOT "hold it in" when around me. In fact I've told her on multiple occassions to use me as a sounding board, or yell and scream if needed, she's not going to ever hurt my feelings. I understand her position and why she votes Dem, because she's explained it to me. And I've never cared, because I like them so much as people.

But she said she "can't get over it". So, I'm now down to 2 friends left. One lives in Canada and the other one has severe knee problems and can't get out much anymore.

God damn I despise this shit and getting old!!

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I miss them already.

 
I miss them already.

You miss them already? Who? People who dumped you after 15 years for absolutely no other reason than just because you exercised your free will to vote your conscience as you best saw fit????

And you think these people ever really were your FRIENDS?
 
I have 2 friends (married couple) that I've been friends with for 15 years. Lets call them S and J.

I met them through S's sister who was a friend at the time. And we've done tons of stuff together over the years and been invited to some of their family get togethers. They claimed I was indeed, a part of their family.

They even helped me out a great deal when I had to go into the hospital a few years ago.

Thing is, they are Democrats. And until now, I didn't know how die hard Dem they are.

S called me tonight to tell me we can no longer be friends because of "whats in the White House".

I had a friend since 1999 do this to me in 2015, as she also turned out to be a die hard, brainwashed Dem.

With me being in my 60's now, and all of my family gone, as well as my other friends who've passed away in the last few years.......I only have 2 friends left now. One tries not to be political at all, and the other is a die hard Rep.

So, I'm kind of dizzy right now from our conversation.
Bascially S told me there's no way in hell she can get over me being a part of the "Nazi Party", although she could not explain to me what "Nazi" stuff she is talking about. She just states "read your history books again".

She said if I ever need help, she will be glad to help out, but we just cannot be friends anymore because she hates having to "hold it in" when around me. And I've NEVER told her to NOT "hold it in" when around me. In fact I've told her on multiple occassions to use me as a sounding board, or yell and scream if needed, she's not going to ever hurt my feelings. I understand her position and why she votes Dem, because she's explained it to me. And I've never cared, because I like them so much as people.

But she said she "can't get over it". So, I'm now down to 2 friends left. One lives in Canada and the other one has severe knee problems and can't get out much anymore.

God damn I despise this shit and getting old!!

giphy.gif

I miss them already.
It's best to just stay away from these people......because they're the folks that joined the Nazi Party in pre-WWII Germany.

There's nothing but hate left in them. Maybe one day they'll grow out of it, but then again the people of Gaza never learned to get along with the Israelis. Palestinians have a lot in common with Nazis. Some of them even praise Hitler for killing 6 million Jews. Just remember that their hatred blinds them to the truth, and there's nothing you can do about that.
 
I have 2 friends (married couple) that I've been friends with for 15 years. Lets call them S and J.

I met them through S's sister who was a friend at the time. And we've done tons of stuff together over the years and been invited to some of their family get togethers. They claimed I was indeed, a part of their family.

They even helped me out a great deal when I had to go into the hospital a few years ago.

Thing is, they are Democrats. And until now, I didn't know how die hard Dem they are.

S called me tonight to tell me we can no longer be friends because of "whats in the White House".

I had a friend since 1999 do this to me in 2015, as she also turned out to be a die hard, brainwashed Dem.

With me being in my 60's now, and all of my family gone, as well as my other friends who've passed away in the last few years.......I only have 2 friends left now. One tries not to be political at all, and the other is a die hard Rep.

So, I'm kind of dizzy right now from our conversation.
Bascially S told me there's no way in hell she can get over me being a part of the "Nazi Party", although she could not explain to me what "Nazi" stuff she is talking about. She just states "read your history books again".

She said if I ever need help, she will be glad to help out, but we just cannot be friends anymore because she hates having to "hold it in" when around me. And I've NEVER told her to NOT "hold it in" when around me. In fact I've told her on multiple occassions to use me as a sounding board, or yell and scream if needed, she's not going to ever hurt my feelings. I understand her position and why she votes Dem, because she's explained it to me. And I've never cared, because I like them so much as people.

But she said she "can't get over it". So, I'm now down to 2 friends left. One lives in Canada and the other one has severe knee problems and can't get out much anymore.

God damn I despise this shit and getting old!!

giphy.gif

I miss them already.
You have plenty of life left and there are plenty of new friends out there. Even if you are an introvert, there are lots of meet up groups online or things you can do to meet people.
 
I hear you man! The biggest mistake I ever made was befriending a progressive liberal. Although politics never came up she was highly controlling and ALWAYS wanted to have her own way and if she didn't get it with me she would have a fit and make me out to be the bad guy.



She never took any accountability for anything and this past election season I found a Kamala Harris sign up in her front yard. I knew her for about ten years but I just put up with her out of guilt that she didn't have any other friends in the neighborhood.



Once I saw the sign it fit until she wanted to go to the movies with me and started having a temper tantrum that I didn't want to go that one and we had already agreed on another one that we both wanted to see. That was the final straw that broke the camel's back.
 

Dumped by friends of 15 years​

This is actually common. I meet people all of the time. Nearly everyone over here is a Trump-hater. It's crazy because this isn't even in the US. It has happened now a few times that when I meet someone new everything goes out the window when I say that i like Trump. I am a tolerant person and the few friends I have are also tolerant. Politics aside we also have one important thing in common: A sense of humour. So, what is this intolerance that the Trump-haters have? That's a good question and I'm sure the experts in psychology have the answer. I am not qualified to have the answer but I am old enough to have an opinion through my experience in life. Maybe you remember the films about the Sovjet Union and how people would snitch on their friends and neighbours for their personal, political views. Then there's North Korea. That's the sort of climate we have today. I guess it's called brainwashing. But don’t worry too much. Have some patience. My prediction is that within a year Trump will put a stop to that crap.
 
I have 2 friends (married couple) that I've been friends with for 15 years. Lets call them S and J.

I met them through S's sister who was a friend at the time. And we've done tons of stuff together over the years and been invited to some of their family get togethers. They claimed I was indeed, a part of their family.

They even helped me out a great deal when I had to go into the hospital a few years ago.

Thing is, they are Democrats. And until now, I didn't know how die hard Dem they are.

S called me tonight to tell me we can no longer be friends because of "whats in the White House".

I had a friend since 1999 do this to me in 2015, as she also turned out to be a die hard, brainwashed Dem.

With me being in my 60's now, and all of my family gone, as well as my other friends who've passed away in the last few years.......I only have 2 friends left now. One tries not to be political at all, and the other is a die hard Rep.

So, I'm kind of dizzy right now from our conversation.
Bascially S told me there's no way in hell she can get over me being a part of the "Nazi Party", although she could not explain to me what "Nazi" stuff she is talking about. She just states "read your history books again".

She said if I ever need help, she will be glad to help out, but we just cannot be friends anymore because she hates having to "hold it in" when around me. And I've NEVER told her to NOT "hold it in" when around me. In fact I've told her on multiple occassions to use me as a sounding board, or yell and scream if needed, she's not going to ever hurt my feelings. I understand her position and why she votes Dem, because she's explained it to me. And I've never cared, because I like them so much as people.

But she said she "can't get over it". So, I'm now down to 2 friends left. One lives in Canada and the other one has severe knee problems and can't get out much anymore.

God damn I despise this shit and getting old!!

giphy.gif

I miss them already.
It's hurtful when "friends" or "family" turn out to be inexorable. The shock alone can leave one spinning. People who can be this way will rarely reverse themselves. They are often incapable. So very sorry for your loss. 🪷
 
This is actually common. I meet people all of the time. Nearly everyone over here is a Trump-hater. It's crazy because this isn't even in the US. It has happened now a few times that when I meet someone new everything goes out the window when I say that i like Trump. I am a tolerant person and the few friends I have are also tolerant. Politics aside we also have one important thing in common: A sense of humour. So, what is this intolerance that the Trump-haters have? That's a good question and I'm sure the experts in psychology have the answer. I am not qualified to have the answer but I am old enough to have an opinion through my experience in life. Maybe you remember the films about the Sovjet Union and how people would snitch on their friends and neighbours for their personal, political views. Then there's North Korea. That's the sort of climate we have today. I guess it's called brainwashing. But don’t worry too much. Have some patience. My prediction is that within a year Trump will put a stop to that crap.
I wish I shared your "prediction" but in my opinion TDS is a mental disorder and not successfully treated. The hatred is too deeply rooted in the soul.
 
Then they were never truley your friends.

The Brain Washing by the left is no different than that of what Nazis did in the 30s. Tell a lie long enough and it becomes the truth in weak minds.

I have a daughter who has become crazed by the bs media.
 
... don’t worry too much. Have some patience. My prediction is that within a year Trump will put a stop to that crap.
I wish I shared your "prediction" but in my opinion TDS is a mental disorder and not successfully treated. The hatred is too deeply rooted in the soul.
When I wrote, "Trump will put a stop to it" I realize that I phrased it poorly. People, particulary the brain-washed sort, are like sheep. They have been mentally buggered by the fake narrative pumped out by the politically-coerced MSM. But, in this case, the sheep are as fickle as one might expect. Trump will straighten out the country (his country) and when the American population experince the benifits of Trump's toil, neighbours will begin to flaunt their new-found appreciation. That's a rolling snowball, if you know what I mean. Yes, I stand by my prediction ..... within a year the country will be waving the flag and showering Trump with praise. The only disgusting thing is that the haters of today will be claiming, "I knew Trump was going to Make America Great, right from the start!"
 
Who? People who dumped you after 15 years for absolutely no other reason than just because you exercised your free will to vote your conscience as you best saw fit????

I just have to add that to all these people who put down Trump or people voting for him, the irony is that in 99.99% of the cases, those doing so voted for Biden, Harris, Obumma or Clinton! Do you understand you're living in a very brittle glass house?
 
I have 2 friends (married couple) that I've been friends with for 15 years. Lets call them S and J.

I met them through S's sister who was a friend at the time. And we've done tons of stuff together over the years and been invited to some of their family get togethers. They claimed I was indeed, a part of their family.

They even helped me out a great deal when I had to go into the hospital a few years ago.

Thing is, they are Democrats. And until now, I didn't know how die hard Dem they are.

S called me tonight to tell me we can no longer be friends because of "whats in the White House".

I had a friend since 1999 do this to me in 2015, as she also turned out to be a die hard, brainwashed Dem.

With me being in my 60's now, and all of my family gone, as well as my other friends who've passed away in the last few years.......I only have 2 friends left now. One tries not to be political at all, and the other is a die hard Rep.

So, I'm kind of dizzy right now from our conversation.
Bascially S told me there's no way in hell she can get over me being a part of the "Nazi Party", although she could not explain to me what "Nazi" stuff she is talking about. She just states "read your history books again".

She said if I ever need help, she will be glad to help out, but we just cannot be friends anymore because she hates having to "hold it in" when around me. And I've NEVER told her to NOT "hold it in" when around me. In fact I've told her on multiple occassions to use me as a sounding board, or yell and scream if needed, she's not going to ever hurt my feelings. I understand her position and why she votes Dem, because she's explained it to me. And I've never cared, because I like them so much as people.

But she said she "can't get over it". So, I'm now down to 2 friends left. One lives in Canada and the other one has severe knee problems and can't get out much anymore.

God damn I despise this shit and getting old!!

giphy.gif

I miss them already.
Precisely why I have three stupid little dogs. I'm late 50's and over the years realised folk just crap on you. So there's only two family members I speak to once in a blue moon, and would probably say I have four friends, I speak to them about once a month on average in a year.

And I don't bother with the likes of Facebook (Fakebook), just nosey assholes on there, quit it years ago.

Politics and Religion divide so if someone dumps you over that, they're not friendly material. Go and join a local club, be it bowling, gardening, walking whatever. Make new friends.
 
I have 2 friends (married couple) that I've been friends with for 15 years. Lets call them S and J.

I met them through S's sister who was a friend at the time. And we've done tons of stuff together over the years and been invited to some of their family get togethers. They claimed I was indeed, a part of their family.

They even helped me out a great deal when I had to go into the hospital a few years ago.

Thing is, they are Democrats. And until now, I didn't know how die hard Dem they are.

S called me tonight to tell me we can no longer be friends because of "whats in the White House".

I had a friend since 1999 do this to me in 2015, as she also turned out to be a die hard, brainwashed Dem.

With me being in my 60's now, and all of my family gone, as well as my other friends who've passed away in the last few years.......I only have 2 friends left now. One tries not to be political at all, and the other is a die hard Rep.

So, I'm kind of dizzy right now from our conversation.
Bascially S told me there's no way in hell she can get over me being a part of the "Nazi Party", although she could not explain to me what "Nazi" stuff she is talking about. She just states "read your history books again".

She said if I ever need help, she will be glad to help out, but we just cannot be friends anymore because she hates having to "hold it in" when around me. And I've NEVER told her to NOT "hold it in" when around me. In fact I've told her on multiple occassions to use me as a sounding board, or yell and scream if needed, she's not going to ever hurt my feelings. I understand her position and why she votes Dem, because she's explained it to me. And I've never cared, because I like them so much as people.

But she said she "can't get over it". So, I'm now down to 2 friends left. One lives in Canada and the other one has severe knee problems and can't get out much anymore.

God damn I despise this shit and getting old!!

giphy.gif

I miss them already.
What you have experience is proof positive that the DNC is a cult

After all, the very first thing a cult does to its members is try to have you convert your friends and family to the cult, and if you don't join, they have them cut off all ties to them.

Sorry to hear about your losses but just know the whole country is like this now.
 
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