You are not being forced to do anything that you find morally offensive, so you should not seek to coerce the religious vendor into doing something that he finds morally offensive. Live and let live. Show some tolerance and respect for different values and beliefs.
Maybe you can answer this question.
Can I discriminate against a Christian that wants to rent one of my houses? Just curious. They really want to rent this house. Close to their kids school, their work, just the right size, close to church. They have the money they have the good rent history.
But I just don't like Christians. Should I be able to discriminate in the housing arena? It would be morally offensive to me being a different religion than they are.
Is discrimination in housing something we should try and bring back?
You simply ignored my arguments and offered up another erroneous comparison.
There is nothing controversial or offensive about living in a rental home. Finding a place to live is a basic need and a natural action. Similarly, renting your home to someone of a different faith does not violate any known religious teaching. So there is no reasonable or religious basis for refusing to rent your home to someone of a different faith.
Your scenario bears no resemblance to the subject under discussion.
Marriage is not a basic need. Marriage is a choice. Indeed, it was not too long ago that the gay rights crowd, along with other leftists, condemned marriage as a barbaric, archaic, oppressive institution.
Getting flowers, or a cake, or a photographer for a wedding is not a "basic need." These are optional conveniences that quite a few folks have either skimped on or done without.
It is perverse reasoning to cry "discrimination" when a religious business owner politely declines to host or service a ceremony that he finds morally and spiritually offensive.
Again,
and this is a point that you guys keep ducking, in declining to host or service a gay wedding, the religious vendor has not denied the gay couple any basic right--they can still get married, they can quickly and easily just go get another vendor, and they are not being forced to do anything that they find morally offensive.
The gay couple does not "have" to use any vendor at all, for that matter. Lots of people do their own wedding flower arrangements. Lots of people have friends bake their wedding cakes (we did). Lots of people, especially in our digital-camera age, simply have a friend or two take pics of the wedding. So we're not talking about any action that the gay couple "has" to do in the first place. They don't "need" to use a religious vendor, nor any vendor. If they "want" to use a vendor, they have plenty of readily available secular vendors who would be willing to host or service a gay wedding.