Deal Breakers: Which is more of a turn off....?

[Bonzi]

Do you have something on your list that is a "deal breaker" - either now while dating or if married, BEFORE you got married?

Anything that is an instant turn off upon meeting someone?

 

[MisterBeale]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

 

[iamwhatiseem]

Smoker would be an instant NO

 

[Bonzi]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

 

[Geaux4it]

Voted for Obama. That is a definite turn off.

-Geaux

 

[iamwhatiseem]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

I would have to agree...if I saw her reading People magazine...I might bnot be able to continue.

 

[MisterBeale]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

Seriously, I dumped a girl that was obsessed with reality TV, those damn super market tabloids, and what was going on in the lives of everyone else. It came to a head when New Orleans was underwater. I was over at her place and I wanted to see pictures of it because as I was driving to her place (it was an hour and an half drive) I heard the levies broke, and she was more interested in what this celebrity was with which one and who was pregnant, but I wanted to see aerial views of the city. She had no interest in seeing the pictures of New Orleans underwater, serious.

She kept on reading her tabloids, and didn't look up to take a look at the city under water. No interest at all, none. I knew at that point that relationship was doomed.

 

[Bonzi]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

I would have to agree...if I saw her reading People magazine...I might bnot be able to continue.

Regarding marriage --- It's always nice (obviously) if you get it right the first time, but when you are married, it really crystalizes what you REALLY want or need in a relationship. Unfortunately, often times, it's not the person you married.....

 

[Iceweasel]

Hairy legs are a deal breaker, there was this model in an art workshop that liked me but I couldn't get past the furry appendages. The biggest turn off is if they act like they shit candy. No looks can overcome that dysfunction.

Also, if they don't like dogs they are too weird for me.

 

[Bonzi]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

Seriously, I dumped a girl that was obsessed with reality TV, those damn super market tabloids, and what was going on in the lives of everyone else. It came to a head when New Orleans was underwater. I was over at her place and I wanted to see pictures of it because as I was driving to her place (it was an hour and an half drive) I heard the levies broke, and she was more interested in what this celebrity was with which one and who was pregnant, but I wanted to see aerial views of the city. She had no interest in seeing the pictures of New Orleans underwater, serious.

She kept on reading her tabloids, and didn't look up to take a look at the city under water. No interest at all, none. I knew at that point that relationship was doomed.

Was she very pretty but not very intelligent? I know that sounds bad.... but that is the image I get....

 

[Bonzi]

Hairy legs are a deal breaker, there was this model in an art workshop that liked me but I couldn't get past the furry appendages. The biggest turn off is if they act like they shit candy. No looks can overcome that dysfunction.

Women also don't like a lot of hair on men (well some women don't) - so I figured most of what I put up there could apply to both men and women....

I can't stand cocky guys either.... I don't think anyone can stay attracted to someone in love with themselves....

 

[Geaux4it]

And if I can't wear her dirty panties as a mask, she ain't making the cut either. I have high standards and expectations which is why I have a great old lady for going on 24 years now.

-Geaux

 

[MisterBeale]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

Seriously, I dumped a girl that was obsessed with reality TV, those damn super market tabloids, and what was going on in the lives of everyone else. It came to a head when New Orleans was underwater. I was over at her place and I wanted to see pictures of it because as I was driving to her place (it was an hour and an half drive) I heard the levies broke, and she was more interested in what this celebrity was with which one and who was pregnant, but I wanted to see aerial views of the city. She had no interest in seeing the pictures of New Orleans underwater, serious.

She kept on reading her tabloids, and didn't look up to take a look at the city under water. No interest at all, none. I knew at that point that relationship was doomed.

Was she very pretty but not very intelligent? I know that sounds bad.... but that is the image I get....

Nah, just your typical tuned out young person. I stay in contact with all past loves. She's grown and matured since, had a couple of kids. She's not like that any more. lol

 

[Bonzi]

And if I can't wear her dirty panties as a mask, she ain't making the cut either. I have high standards and expectations which is why I have a great old lady for going on 24 years now.

-Geaux

Congrats on the 24 years! Good stuff to hear!

 

[Bonzi]

Women obsessed with relationships and celebrity gossip.

I could never understand people's obsession with celebrities and what they do etc.
The receptionist at one of my old jobs was fascinated with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie .... she even owned a Chihuahua and would bring it to work occasionally....

Seriously, I dumped a girl that was obsessed with reality TV, those damn super market tabloids, and what was going on in the lives of everyone else. It came to a head when New Orleans was underwater. I was over at her place and I wanted to see pictures of it because as I was driving to her place (it was an hour and an half drive) I heard the levies broke, and she was more interested in what this celebrity was with which one and who was pregnant, but I wanted to see aerial views of the city. She had no interest in seeing the pictures of New Orleans underwater, serious.

She kept on reading her tabloids, and didn't look up to take a look at the city under water. No interest at all, none. I knew at that point that relationship was doomed.

Was she very pretty but not very intelligent? I know that sounds bad.... but that is the image I get....

Nah, just your typical tuned out young person. I stay in contact with all past loves. She's grown and matured since, had a couple of kids. She's not like that any more. lol

Gotcha ... the girl at work was 22 so I guess it's just an age thing..... but pretty sure some don't out grow it!

 

[strollingbones]

the age thing.....friend picks up young.....barely legal young lady from bar.....takes her home ...gets it on.....in the morning he finds her out in his living room...eating cereal and watching cartoons.....ended his career as a ladies man....at least with younger ladies....(the cereal was for his kids when they visit).....he has nightmares of chris hanson for months lol

 

[Alex.]

the age thing.....friend picks up young.....barely legal young lady from bar.....takes her home ...gets it on.....in the morning he finds her out in his living room...eating cereal and watching cartoons.....ended his career as a ladies man....at least with younger ladies....(the cereal was for his kids when they visit).....he has nightmares of chris hanson for months lol

Depends on the cereal and the cartoons she sounds just like me..

 

[Bonzi]

the age thing.....friend picks up young.....barely legal young lady from bar.....takes her home ...gets it on.....in the morning he finds her out in his living room...eating cereal and watching cartoons.....ended his career as a ladies man....at least with younger ladies....(the cereal was for his kids when they visit).....he has nightmares of chris hanson for months lol

Depends on the cereal and the cartoons she sounds just like me..

well, which do you like?

 

[Alex.]

the age thing.....friend picks up young.....barely legal young lady from bar.....takes her home ...gets it on.....in the morning he finds her out in his living room...eating cereal and watching cartoons.....ended his career as a ladies man....at least with younger ladies....(the cereal was for his kids when they visit).....he has nightmares of chris hanson for months lol

Depends on the cereal and the cartoons she sounds just like me..

well, which do you like?

Depends on the day today it was transformers prime

 

[Anathema]

I have several.....

Women who were at or sbove my education, professional or salary level.

Women with any sort of Masculine physical or personality traits.

Things of that nature.