The stuff you learn on message boards, eh?
I agree that is important, but what we do with it and our decisions from it are important, too. Does it improve and change our lives for the better? God and the Bible (basic instructions before leaving earth) tops all. Aside from that, the quality and quantity of posts is important to our legacy here, too. Others give poster credit for our posts and we influence other posters. Can you say that you are affirmative and positive in the above

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What is positive about living your life in trembling fear of ancient superstitions? I have no reason to fear your conception of angry gods.
My experience with the hyper-religious is their deep-seated anger and frailties. Its as though they feel their lives are worthless and their existence is a burden until death and some eternal, imagined quality time with fat naked babies playing harps in heaven. The idea that "we die and all rot in the ground" somehow translates into "we shouldn't strive for excellence and happiness in life" is somewhat puzzling to me. I don't see the need to postulate an eternal afterlife or any gods in order to give life meaning. Life, in and of itself, **is** meaning. Existence is a life-view that requires one to stand up, accept reality as it is, for what it is, and take responsibility for enjoying life and helping to make life better.
Why? Because if we live in a world that we purposely make miserable, we each share in that misery. If we have children, and we love them, we want a better world so maybe they have less of a burden of pain to experience, and more pleasure and happiness.
We are entities that have a complex array of feelings and emotions, many good, some troublesome; and we are part of a functioning whole that is existence. Why deny it? I don't fear my mortality; in fact, I respect it-- it is a keen motivator. I have a finite time to accomplish things that will make me personally happy and better those around me. I experience pleasure when I volunteer to help a friend and lighten another's burden. I need to be promised a reward of eternal bliss in order to do these things? I find that self-centered and weakens the act of kindness. I do good deeds because to do them is good, not to earn a reward.