I have a $26,500 pontoon. Paid for it right before covid. Cash. I have a $6500 quad. Paid cash for it. Locally it was $8500 but I drove up to Lansing and got a sweet deal. I pay probably $3000 a year having it stored, brought out to my place, etc. I have a $100 a month gym membership. On top of the 24% of my pay I put into 401K I also save an additional $20,000 every year. I put it in stocks.
I paid off my condo years ago. If I had a kid, I'd still be paying off a 30 year mortgage. Pretending to be middle class. Saving 8% and that would include the 4% match. If I had a boat, which I wouldn't but if I did, it'd be with a 30 year mortgage. So I'd be 54 years old and have 2 mortgages and not have saved to pay for my kids college.
I don't know how you people do it. I easily do it because I'm a SINK but I can't imagine having to pay for everything you breeders have to pay for.
One thing we should do is lower the regulation for child care and pre school. It's too expensive. Let anyone watch your kids. No insurance necessary. Same with senior care. Those place are a fortune. Lower the regulations and liability if something goes wrong. No more suing the place because gramma died. What did you think was going to happen?