Grits are great.

And black-eyed peas.
And collared greens.
Fried okra.
Collard greens, I love. I've had fried okra, and it's not bad. I have also had black-eyed peas that I've liked, but I wouldn't travel for them.
But grits are awful. And I've tried (to the mockery of my Southern friends) to eat them with sugar and cream, and they're
still no good. Tried them the "correct" way (with cheese, and pepper, or butter and salt and pepper), and they're still inedible to this damned Yankee.
Have you tried them the regular way and mixed them with a fried egg or two?
And maybe, you or whomever is making them, is not adding enough salt to the boiling water you add the grits to....
If grits do not have enough salt in them, then they are tasteless....and when you add salt after cooking them, it just does not work.....so you could try adding more salt to the boiling water you add the grits to cook in.
Outside of that, I have known many yankees who just could not grow to like grits....