It isn't a big deal to me, get married and be off. Enjoy your life. I think marriage is between God and the couple. If you don't want God and you see divorce as an option, then it should be a civil union. Marriage today is an insult to God.
So you don't believe civil marriages are real marriages? That marriages between non-believers are not real marriages?
Not being snarky, just trying to understand your position.
You aren't being snarky at all, I see most marriages to really be civil unions.
Marriage, to me, is a real commitment, rarely do you see a marriage last a life time.
Bad times, good times, you stick it out and endure, you struggle, you accept, you give in and give in and give in, because love in not about one person, it is shared between two. I am not one to quote a scripture however 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 defines love and the world would be better off if we all practiced that definition, I know it may sound silly and simplistic but it works for me. The principles are sound.
Man (I do not mean gays) have cheapened marriage and the marriage vows. Divorce, cheating, it is sad and disgusting.
Christian and non Christian have nothing to with it. I know non-Christians that have great marriages, and are great people, I have found many Christians to be hypocrites.
I also believe marriage is a religious ceremony, a civil union is a government ceremony.
I don't mean to imply any marriage is less than another. Does that help explain my position?