Something occurred to me this afternoon while posting in another thread. I think it's important enough to bear repeating, again (I repeated the same concept in two threads already). So, here goes:
Sadly both sides are far too busy bickering over who is more to blame, and have no time left to realise we actually agree there is a problem. I am not, repeat, not referring to politicians. I'm talking about the everyday people out there trying to prove their "side" didn't do this, or the other guys are more to blame. It's time for this country to grow-up and quit worrying about who did what (groups, parties, etc.), we have more important things to do, like fix our Republic. I don't think there are too many people who don't think it's broken, just disagree on why, and what is broken about it. Well, I can clear both of those things up with one word:
Divided.
Abraham Lincoln: “A house divided against itself cannot stand."
So, who out there is adult enough to come to the table to fix the real problem? Are there any?
I agree with you that there needs to be more rational discourse and less name-calling/reverting to the blame game. However, are you not doing exactly just that--playing the blame game--by overgeneralizing "liberals" or the "left"? Let's take your assessment of the philosophical values between "Conservatives" and "Liberals":
You say:
Conservatives tend to identify themselves (and others) based on individuality, Progressives tend to identify themselves (and others) by the group (or groups) they "belong" to.
Conservatives very much identify themselves with groups. Vast swathes of the Christian right for example think there should be no separation of church and state, believing that the country was funded on "Christianity" when in fact our funding fathers were mostly deists (and possibly closeted agnostics or atheists). To take an extreme case, look at Steve Bannon calling on Christians from all across the country to form "church militants" (
President Trump’s right-hand man Steve Bannon called for Christian holy war: Now he’s on the National Security Council). Or the millions of Conservatives who believe the earth is only 5000 years old and that humans once roamed with dinosaurs, whom disavow evolution and take the propaganda of big business oil magnates and lobbying groups over the American Meteorology Society, U.S National Academy of Sciences, Geophysical Union (and hundreds more respected scientific organizations from around the world
Climate Change: Vital Signs of the Planet: Scientific Consensus) in regards to climate change that might threaten to destroy any possibility of a decent life for our grandchildren. I can't think of a more extreme case of group-think than the ones displayed here.
Conservatives tend to behave more civilly (especially in large groups), while Progressives tend to be more "violent" ( I would not use this word myself, I use it because that is the wording used above. I believe a better term to use would be "disrespectful".)
This again is an overgeneralization. Take a look at the "civil" Conservatives protests after Obama's win in 2008, when crowds protested against having a dark skinned Kenyan president. You can still find online the photos of mobs creating black lynch dolls and setting them on fire, and holding signs that say "Hang in there Obama." Or at the University of Mississippi in 2012 after the reelection, when hundreds of Conservatives students went out and said that they didn't want a Black for a president. We can go on and on with this one.
While I agree that Conservatives tend to prefer to retain freedom and that Progressives tend to use coercion more, I don't think either of these groups have a monopoly on either trait. Nor do I see how they can be used as they were. Freedom and coercion are not mutually exclusive by any means.
Precisely. Which is why we should stop overgeneralizing on both sides, especially on the laughable notion that liberals = violence, group think and conservatives = peace, individuality...
In principle, I agree. However, it is not "over-generalization" that I am intending. One can find examples of disrespectful actions on both sides, and one can find examples of civil discourse on both sides. In short one can find examples of anything one wishes on both sides. What I am trying to say is that, in my experience the different sides have certain tendencies. Maybe this is due to my own biases, maybe it is not, it really doesn't matter as finding blame, or criticizing one side ot the other serves no real purpose if what one is trying to do is bring people together. While I did fall into this trap myself, as you point out, what I was attempting to illustrate (poorly I must admit) is that there is plenty of blame to go around. There are extremists on both sides, conservatives that disregard well established chronology, and liberals who reject the idea that failure is an essential part of growth (just to illustrate the point), but I do not believe that either extreme represents the majority of Americans. Likewise, one can find examples of respectful disagreement on both sides, as well as topics/issues we can all, generally, agree on. This is where the vast majority of Americans would fall, in my opinion. While we may disagree on certain topics/issues, we are generally in agreement that what we want is a better tomorrow for ourselves and our posterity. Unfortunately, this idea does not sell as well as extremism, in the media (both sides, and even truly objective sources). Therefore, we must, if we are to correct the state of affairs in our great land, reject the notion that there is little, if any middle ground. There is quite a bit of middle ground. Extremists are just that, the fringe, radical, not the norm, ultra-left and ultra-right. While they have every right to voice their opinion, that does not mean they are right, or wrong. Nor does it mean that we should even listen to them, let alone allow them to influence public policy.
Conservatives tend to identify themselves (and others) based on individuality, Progressives tend to identify themselves (and others) by the group (or groups) they "belong" to.
Just because one identifies with a group, does not mean that there identity IS that group. There is a difference. Let me explain. While I identify with a particular faith, that is not my identity. I am also, American, a particular gender, of a particular age group, and have a particular skin color or "race". None of these identify who I am, nor what I am, they are merely adjectives to describe me in various ways. The flip side of that is one who allows who they are as a person to be dictated by these adjectives. I'll give some examples of how this manifests itself:
- Terms such as Jewish-American, African-American, Etc. Are we not all, first and foremost Americans? Yes, some are Jewish, some have African ancestry, but that is not who we are, it is only segregating us into groups. There are proper uses for this, but really not many.
- Christians who oppose abortion, yet cannot fully explain why their personal beliefs lead them to this position. "It says so in the bible", is not a sufficient argument for me. Why, that is the question I would ask, "why does it say so in the bible?" What do you beleive that tells you abortion is unacceptable for other people?
- As has been documented here: I Only Voted For Obama 'Cause He's Black. Now What? | The Huffington Post, and here: Samuel L. Jackson Says, "I Voted For Barack Obama Because He Was Black!" - EBONY
Conservatives tend to behave more civilly (especially in large groups), while Progressives tend to be more "violent" ( I would not use this word myself, I use it because that is the wording used above. I believe a better term to use would be "disrespectful".)
National Mall after Obama's inauguration:
After Trump's inauguration:
Were there fewer people at Trump's? Sure, probably. Enough to account for the difference in litter? I wouldn't think so. Yes, this is anecdotal, it is just one example. There are plenty more if one is inclined to look. And yes, one can also find evidence to the contrary. I doubt the scales would tip against my assertion, but you are welcome to prove me wrong.