Does the question really matter? You'll just lie about the findings regardless. If your points were valid you wouldn't have to lie so often.
The polls speak for themselves. I didn't register as 100 different people and vote on the one, for instance. How would the poll be "me lying". 90% of people feel it's important for a child to have both a mother and father. That's that. And, some of them have not realized that that firm belief cannot exist in the same moral universe as gay marriage.
You don't like the polls, I get it; because they are a didactic device to lead people to the truth of their own feelings. Whereas in the past people just blindly went PC for gay marriage. The new information of 90% feeling it's important for kids to have both a mother and father makes anyone trying to walk the fence between the two feel like a party to silence about hurting kids if they remain quiet about their true opposition to gay marriage. That's the part you don't like.