No nation has ever practiced Communism and any witless attempt to dismiss such a fact is exactly that.
Totalitarianism and Authoritarianism are NOT Communism.
They tried to force communism on people and only a cruel dictator would do that. They are the ones who would be happy if all the little people could be manipulated however they see fit. If people in this country want communism, they can follow the method of Charles Manson and invite all their friends to live together, share responsibilities and be totally equal. They can skip the killing part.
There are people living in communes and maybe they are happy. It's their choice to live that way and their choice to leave.
Call things whatever you want, but when a tyrant has power and they abuse it, we all lose.