They don't want to know the human side of it. They just want someone to hate for no good reasonI knew a guy. Non-athletic, very pleasant, academic, high achiever.
Valedictorian went on to become a doctor. Went to Africa to help bush clinics.
Came back and got a degree in engineering. Went back to Africa and built hospitals.
Transitioned in his early forties.
Who cares what she looks like, she's a better person than you are.