what is it when blacks demand black only dorms at colleges? is that racist, yes or no?
I think so for the most part. It could happen naturally just by the choice of the students and though that is unfortunate, it may just be the way it is. Just as the black church remains one of the most segregated institutions out there. But it shouldn't be policy.
But everything can't be pinned down in purely black and white terms. (Admitting shameless pun there.)
When the government set about to do urban renewal to improve roads and housing and also to break down the last vestiges of segregation via affirmative action and busing and whatever, there were some disastrous unintended consequences.
New highways sometimes cut through communities and forever segregated them when they might have otherwise become more naturally integrated. Children who felt secure and safe and had community in their schools were forced to bus to a different neighborhood where even if they were not harassed or bullied, they never felt fully accepted or included. Vital old neighborhoods where the people all knew, supported, and looked after one another were bulldozed and the people scattered into the projects that, with no pride of ownership or inclusion, all too soon became run down, vandalized, overrun with rodents and crime.
And not to be overlooked, institutions that supported, helped, advised, promoted black advancement were largely dismantled. When at one time the black demographic was the one advancing the most economically, all that came to a screeching halt. (My observation here is based on the writings of Thomas Sowell, Walter E. Williams, Shelby Steele, et al who did extensive research on all that.)
Affirmative action once had its place when it was necessary to break down artificial barriers and get the American public used to an integrated society. But once that was accomplished and laws were in place to protect everybody, affirmative action should have ended and let culture and customs develop naturally as they always have. If that had happened I think racism would be a rare and manageable event in most of America.
But the modern American left seems hell bent determined to keep it alive and well and continue to insist on policy that will keep it alive and well.