They were not allowed out on the ocean. You don't seem to understand that.
It is tragic, but we cannot protect our kids from all bad decisions they could make. If they routinely make bad decisions, then you can withold privileges, but these kids were known to be good kids.
Your determination to place blame on parents that obviously raised good kids, and those kids made a tragic mistake, is beyond reprehensible. They had sensible rules that would have been enough if followed like they had previously done on a number of occasions.
Do you not think they question themselves enough already for the mistake their kids own?
These boys have grown up around the water and boats. I grew up around water and boats. If you haven't grown up that way you wouldn't understand. It is a part of life. As Joe Namath said, he knew the boys and they were good boys. They made a stupid and possibly tragic decision.
It is no different from a boy growing up climbing trees and one day deciding to venture further out on a small limb and it giving out and their landing on their head. They have been told what could happen, but curiosity gets the best of them. We can't protect our children from every possible bad decision they could make. We can guide them, and hope they make wise decisions, but that will not always be the case. And I truly believe that we are to guide our kids, help grow their critical thinking and reasoning skills, so they hopefully make the right decisions. By protecting them from life they don't learn how to deal with life and its curve balls that inevitably come.
Exactly. This is why I wouldn't let my 14-year-old boy do this type of thing without some kind of adult supervision, boys this age are known to be risk takers and to break rules. This is what I'm trying to say here.
If there had been adult supervision, this probably would not have happened. While it is legal for a 14-year-old to take a boat out, I would not allow that as a parent. That is an unnecessary risk, when you could just go along. The ocean is very dangerous and unpredictable.