How many of the supporters of this new policy have ever actually been a Scout or a Scouter?
How many of you have actually been on the camping trips?
How many of you actually take your time to dedicate to working with a Troop or a Pack?
How many of you know anything at all about Boy Scouting beside what you have heard in the media?
OK, I'll give a little background first. My father was a council president and Silver Beaver back in the 50's. My older brother is an Eagle Scout. I have been a Cub Scout, Boy Scout, Explorer, and adult Scouter pretty much from age seven. I am a Vigil Honor member of the OA, former Explorer post president, NOAC ICE staff for a decade, Wood Badge Beaver, and friend of Bill Hillcourt. My two sons are both Eagle Scouts, Vigil members of the OA, and NOAC ICE staff. The older has a Founders Award.
I spent three years as a Webelos Den Leader, five years as a Cubmaster, four years as an assistant Cubmaster, twenty two years as an Assistant Scoutmaster, eight years as district chairman for merit badge programs, a dozen years on the District training committee, and sixteen years as an assistant lodge advisor. During thirty years or so of that period I camped as an adult leader at summer camp, on high adventure trips, and monthly campouts.
I know several of the delegates to the May meeting, including one gay delegate. IMHO the new policy is an error in judgment, in that it will satisfy no one and will do harm by not taking the original path proposed. The status quo ante was essentially "Don't Ask, Don't Tell". Except for a few isolated zealots, everyone was content to leave the choice of adult leader standards to the sponsoring institution which meant that some religiously sponsored troops could exclude gay leaders or have them serve quietly at the SO's choice. Except for Eagle Boards of Review (which unlike lower ranks is a national office function), each troop and its SO were free to deal with youth members as it thought appropriate. The long-standing BSA policy of youth protection was supported regardless of gender orientation or gender.
By "regularizing" the youth policy and restating the adult member policy, BSA has destroyed the informal accomodation on this issue and the commitment to the role of the sponsoring institution in defining BSA's interpretation of the Scout Oath and Law.
My preference? First confirm both the new policy regarding youth members and the long-standing policy of discouraging sexual activity by youth members and at scout functions and events. Second, announce that as expressions of sexuality properly belong as part of a religious tradition, scouting should be neutral as to the content, just as scouting does not attempt to define God. The setting of religious or moral standards for adult volunteers is a job for the sponsoring institution (as long as national policies on youth safety and similar standards are observed).
Would everyone be happy? No. Would some people leave? Yes. We are past the point when any change could hold everyone in place. Would Scouting in America be viable in the future? I believe it would. I would not be too upset if Scouting in America bifurcated into a two organizations, although that would be messy and would not be in the best interests of the youth. But Scouting will undoubtedly survive.
YIS,
Jamie