I guess we can't have a "private" organization- club in this country anymore..
You will be hounded and bullied if you do
As a private organization, the Boy Scouts decided to allow gays. Girl Scouts had already made that decision
It is the right thing to do
When Girl Scouts made that decision membership immediately dropped by 20% and they never recovered. In an effort to attract new members, the Girl Scouts did away with merit badges and it didn't help.
As a private organization the BSA had an absolute right to vote to allow in gays. It will just do to the BSA what allowing lesbians into the GSA did.
No matter how tolerant, no matter how sensitive an individual might be, when it comes to their own children it's a different story.