The problem with homeschooling is that because it is unregulated it can be very good to very bad. My friend's daughter homeschools (homeschooling is pretty popular in my area) and she works hard at it. She does a great job, her kids excel, the things she can't do herself she networks with other parents and in a few cases, her kids take individual classes at a local Christian school. She goes to annual conferences and education workshops to stay on top of things. Another friend of mine turned to home schooling because her son was autistic and the local school was not adequate. Her daughter switched to homeschooling as well then went on to a public highschool. In her case - public schools failed her special needs child (and that is not infrequent - they are mandated to take them but poorly equipt to teach them). So - like with public schools - home schooling has a place and is a good option when it's done well but that isn't always the case and we shouldn't just rush to the knee-jerk defense of homeschooling and ignore the cases where it DOESN'T work or serves to hide abusive situations.
Here are examples of situations where homeschooling is little more than a means to abuse a child or worse - deny him or her an adequate education. When this occurs in public schools - it's out in the open, there are demands for accountability and there are constant arguments over what to do. In the open. With homeschooling? Not so much.
Tara Westover:
Tara Westover: ‘In families like mine there is no crime worse than telling the truth.’
What sort of education did she get? What was she put through before she got out? Homeschooling is also a tool used by a lot of what amounts to "cults" to isolate their children.
Here, in this article - is a group that deliberately works to prevent any sort of regulation or oversight.
Despite Concerns Over Child Safety, Homeschool Lobby Aims to Avoid Regulation
HSLDA’s prime mission is
providing legal assistance to home-schooling parents, sometimes including criminal defense and public relations for members charged with abusing or mistreating children.
Several of the people it has defended in the courts or in the media have spurred controversy:
- In 1995, HSLDA represented two home-schooling parents who had been ordered by a judge to send their two children to public schools after four of the couple’s other children had died in their care. The couple were ultimately allowed to continue to home-school the children.
- In 2005, HSLDA lawyer Scott Somerville called Michael Gravelle, a home-school father who had been accused of keeping 11 of his adopted children in cages, “a hero.” (Somerville did not represent Gravelle in court). Gravelle and his wife were later convicted of child endangerment and abuse.
- In 2013, a lawyer affiliated with HSLDA represented Carolyn and John Jackson, a couple who were indicted on 17 counts of child endangerment and assault, including allegedly keeping their children dehydrated and having their siblings police them to make sure they did not drink from the toilet in desperation. The couple were convicted on multiple counts.
So you don't want to regulate it...and I can understand that, but doesn't it make sense for some sort of minimum to ensure that abuse doesn't occur? We have that level of accountability with public schools and private schools - but homeschooling is thus far largely exempt.
Children aren't the property of the state but neither are they the property of their parents. They aren't anyone's property.