When the trans community stops demanding access to children, when they stop insisting men who won't date them are <fill in your favorite here>phobes, when they stop demanding attention and affirmation from the world, they will receive much more respect, because they will be behaving like, wait for it....ADULTS. When men pretending to be women stop acting like sick caricatures of how they think women act and stop pretending they have periods or can get pregnant, they will receive more respect. When men pretending to be women stop physically competing with women and stealing prizes, trophies, money and scholarships, they will receive more respect. Notice that most of the objection is against men pretending to be women, because they tend to act more juvenile and like children throwing a tantrum instead of simply living their lives and going about their business. Women pretending to be men, OTOH, tend to be less confrontational, less demanding of attention and affirmation, and thus receive more respect in return. They also are not raping men when they are vulnerable, like some men tend to do when they find women naked in a locker room or bathroom.
The bottom line remains, you largely get what you give. When you approach society with dignity and respect, you'll get that in return. When, OTOH, you approach like a hormonal teenager, ticked off and demanding concessions from society because they stopped serving your favorite ice cream flavor, you're not likely to be treated like an adult deserving of respect.
It was telling that the "Pride" parade in Florida was cancelled when it became illegal to present sexual displays in front of children.