Well your assessment comes from the same place your pot addiction comes from. I don't drink, nor have I ever had a drink. I have never had so much as a beer.
You have a need for your opponents to be in the same pit of addiction thst you are in. That way you can relate.
A 12 step program will help you.
If marijuana were addictive I, along with my late (PhD) wife, would not have been able to (sadly) decide to just give it up when Reagan's drug war insanity made it illegal again in New York City in 1982 -- after twelve years of decriminalized status. The effect on us both was we missed its euphoric tranquility for awhile and then just forgot about it.
If I were addicted to marijuana I would be in really bad shape after thirty years of abstinence. I'll be damned if I would pay more than $100 for an ounce of the finest purple indica sinsemilla available -- which was the going price for it back in the 60s and 70s when it was decriminalized in New York City. I've heard today's price for that is around $400, which is why it's called "lawyer bud."
Make it legal in New Jersey and I'll start baking my "special" carrot cake again (I'm too old to be smoking anything) -- and I might even invest in a vaporizer.