28One of the teachers of religious law was standing there listening to the debate. He realized that Jesus had answered well, so he asked, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”
29Jesus replied, “The most important commandment is this: ‘Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord. 30And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’g
31The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’h No other commandment is greater than these.”
32The teacher of religious law replied, “Well said, Teacher. You have spoken the truth by saying that there is only one God and no other. 33And I know it is important to love him with all my heart and all my understanding and all my strength, and to love my neighbor as myself. This is more important than to offer all of the burnt offerings and sacrifices required in the law.”
Loving your neighbor is demonstrated by holding your neighbor to account for his behavior. In that the failure to do so leads to the destruction of your neighbor.
But, in fairness to you, as a Relativist who lacks the means to reason objectively... There was no way for you to understand that otherwise self-evident truth.