What is so frustrating about having this type of discussion (which I have for years) is when some refuse to accept the inevitability of government and continue to argue for its nonexistence.
It is akin to arguing with people about the inevitability of gravity. It's not like I like being weighed down all the time. I just can't wish gravity to go away and have it happen. I can try to overcome it some of the time. I can fight it and resist it, but that force will never, ever, ever, EEEHEHHEHEHEHEHHHEEEEVER go away.
This is one of the most frustrating disputes because some just refuse to hear me. I don't like or want government, just like I don't like or want old age. The argument looks like this:
Anarchist: Government will never behave. It is terrible to have government.
Me: I agree. Wish we could do something about it.
Anarchist: Why do you want to keep doing the same shit over and over.
Me: I don't. I wish government wouldn't keep rearing its ugly motherfucking dome.
Anarchist: Then stop allowing government.
Me: I...how? You asking the impossible.
Anarchist: We MUST find another alternative.
Me: Okay. What? How do we avoid the unavoidable.
Anarchist: Government will never behave. You can't tame it.
Me: I know. What do you want from me? I don't like it. I don't like death either, but....
Anarchist: We MUST consider alternatives to rid ourselves of government.
Me: (sigh)