Linda Roberts' mother - like more than 5 million Americans - has Alzheimers. I went to visit her five years ago, found out some stuff was going on. I packed her up that weekend and took her home, said Roberts. She joined the more than 15 million family members and friends caring for someone with Alzheimers. Roberts said it has been devastating to watch her mother struggling with the incurable brain-wasting disease. Being her mother's sole caregiver, she added, also is daunting. Its extremely stressful being a full time caregiver-keeping my patience, trying to over and over repeat things that I need to get done. I think thats my frustration, she said.
Two years ago, Roberts found help at the Alzheimers Family Day Center, where adults with Alzheimers and dementia can spend the day in a supervised, enriching environment
much like a daycare center for young children. The facility is open on weekdays from early in the morning to late in the afternoon. Its really given me time to do things during the day and pursue some hobbies or have some time to myself, said Howard Simmons, who began bringing his wife to the daycare center three years ago. She was diagnosed with Alzheimers in about (20)06. In about '07, '08, I was becoming quite frustrated because when youre the principal caregiver and they are home, youre doing everything. You know, I became the cook, the cleaner, he said.
The retired civil engineer said having his wife here every day eases his mind. He knows shes in a safe place, taken care of and well-fed. We serve breakfast, we serve lunch and two snacks a day, said Lisa Wright, the facility's program manager. She noted that the staff also provides a wide variety of activities that are therapeutic, and fun. We have an artist come in and do just specific art with small groups. We have musical therapy where we have a lady that brings in instruments and they all get to play the instruments. We have a physical therapist here two days a week," said Wright. "We have a ballroom dancer that comes in. I think that's probably the favorite. We do a lot of mind-challenging games. The other day I stepped in to do some activities and we focused on pairs, so we talked about what comes in pairs. So we do brain exercise type of activities, as well, said Wright.
Medical care also is available. We have a nurse practitioner that comes once a month. We have a fulltime nurse on staff. We can handle almost everything right here during those hours, said Wright. In addition, the center offers services for caregivers. We have a support group that they can come and just share with one another. We have an outreach and education. [If] there are issues at home, our social worker would go make a home visit and maybe some suggestions on how to make things easier, said Wright.
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