he isn't begging for a handout that he is not entitled to. It is those that want affirmative action that are begging for the handout
Then in that case, go talk to the lawmakers who who passed the legislation.
Even if what you are saying is true, (which it is not) those of the world, like you and he, who believe in your own inherent superiority, just by being part of a collective, based on an accident of birth, should still be able to excel, in spite of AA or any other "obstacle".
Opposition to it by those like you two, is in fact, doing nothing more than admitting to your own inferiority, caused by your own laziness, and inability to be competitive in an equalized environment.
Of all people, especially you, if you live in a household headed by a white female who is in a position of responsibility, it is likely that YOU have benefitted from AA.
For that, you should be grateful.