Adult Sex Ed, subject : Bondage /BDSM fetishes

[Player35]

These are the safest bondage / Bdsm practices.

The don'ts.

#1. NEVER practice it with people you don't know, or who otherwise don't do this normally and who you have not thoroughly researched and vetted.

#2. NEVER use police, Jail or prison,, medical, transport or courtroom control restraints or rope, duct tape, zip ties or any other such devices.

#3. NEVER practice it at home or at anyplace where you are alone and can't be heard or at any lodgings that you are unfamiliar with and have not throughly inspected at the time of sexual conduct...
Closets, restroom, bed, under the bed, tub, under the sink, balcony and anywhere else an uninvited 3rd party could be lurking.

#4. NEVER let the "dom" make the reservations for lodgings.

#5. NEVER allow the unrestrained party to use a telephone or computer, and then continue this course of sexual behavior with that partner.

#6. NEVER Sex-UI (sex under the influence).
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The Dos.

#1. Practice it with your wife, girlfriend or with a well researched rental girlfriend or callgirl.. who you know more than 6 months prior.

#2. ALWAYS use pornographic, approved prop restraints that are made for sex, that are by design, NOT physical traps to allow unconditional, non-consentual contact for non sexual purposes...

These allow you to release yourself from them.

#3. Use only hotel buildings, in which you are safe, adequately secure and can and would be heard screaming.

#4. You as the sub, select the hotel, to avoid the dom from having uninvited 3rd parties there beforehand.

#5. If the dom uses a phone or computer or leaves the hotel building for any reason..
STOP IMMEDIATELY and SCRAM.
DO NOT RETURN, DO NOT PERFORM AGAIN with that person.

#6. ALWAYS thoroughly inspect the hotel room beforehand.

#7. Arrive sober, STAY sober.

#8. Practice ordinary safe sex protocols.

#9. Keep a hidden personal alarm and air horn, and pepper spray.

 

[EvilCat Breath]

I always used a motel room in a small seedy motel. Less likely to complain of a little blood.
I never permitted the use of safe words. I made the decisions.
I used only my own restraints.
Needless to say, money up front.
No touching of my person. No personal relationship.
No filming.
This was long before cell phones. So. No problem.