jc456
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Feeling sorry for the victim doesn't help them. Teach them to stand up and be strong. Do the right thing.
It is much more complicated than that..they are victims.
My mom died by the hands of an abuser in 1976
And this happened to some good friends of mine.. I watched the boy grow up.
That’s sad, but doesn’t implicate everyone just because it happened to you
I studied this, and have my state board license.. I worked to get abused pregnant women off the streets who were addicted , and most had healthy babies..they finished their GED's and got on their feet.
Yeah I admit, I can be co-dependant and want to bring everyone home with me.. But it is not just black and white.
Every single family is dysfunctional, one way or another..to point the finger at an abused person and judging them is Fk-ed Up..
You do great work! And yes, it's not all black and white. I just think in most cases, staying with the abuser is not going to change a thing. Try to save the relationship with counseling is a first tep and if the situation continues, only the victim can improve their life. First, escape the turmoil and begin planning a new life by starting to be independent. Don't look for sympathy, look for cheer leaders!
The only thing I will say is this:
Since Donald Trump
Was Elected The Left has gone after every single member of his Administration.
They are even willing to enlist the help of Vladimir Putin, and the KGB to take down The President, so unfortunately you Cannot believe any accusation against the Administration by his enemies.
Once a group of people are willing to engage in a COUP and commit TREASON...ACTUAL TREASON to take down a duly elected president, NOTHING THEY SAY, NOTHING THEY DEMAND HAS CREDIBILITY!![]()
Why was this guy who was not able to get a security clearance working one of the most important jobs who could have been blackmailed easily..He worked next to our president everyday..
The wife's made the reports years ago..and documented.
Stop blaming it on the democrats , it was ignored until it was exposed..
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He was vetted and had an interim clearance. Trump doesn’t do that. The FBI does.