Some learn those things. And some learn they hate school.
My first job was a laborer for a construction project and I learned that I hated digging trenches and clearing garbage piles. I wanted to be the guy with the hammer or the guy with the blueprints both of whom were getting paid way more than the guys sweating in the dirt. This is what made me start taking school and going to college seriously. My point is, sometimes experiencing things you hate can motivate you to achieve better things. We all have to experience struggles and challenges in life. It’s in those situations when we often learn the most about ourselves. This is especially important for our youth to learn and experience
To an extent. If it’s something you hate that gets you to a larger goal, then fine.
I liked school. But then again, I still like to learn. Not everyone has that experience, and it feels like a waste of time if it’s not leading you to a life goal.
But then how do you apply that lesson to the real world? People have to go to work every day and do you wanna guess how many people hate working or hate their jobs? Yet they have to do it to survive.
Learning to triump in situations that you hate is a great life lesson or else what are we teaching our kids? As soon as you hate your job, quit? As soon as your relationship gets hard bail?
I just don’t see a down side to instilling our children with lessons of discipline and challenge in their developing years. How they decide to use those lessons when they become an adult is up to them, but at least we are preparing them the best we can for what they will face later in life.
The downside is that high schoolers who don’t want to be there can make it harder on everyone else.
That’s where the behavior issues come in.
I don’t necessarily disagree with you; I’m just playong devil’s advocate.
I appreciate that, it lends to a good debate. Problem kids are definatley an issue, I guess I would argue that it all exists in the real world. Our communities have crime and homelessness that makes things harder for others. Our workplaces often have mad apples that make life tough for others. Learning how to achieve success despite the barriers and how to lift the problem people up are both great skills to learn in school which can be translated to the real world.
My girls is a school counselor so she deals with the “problem” kids most of the time. They are mostly good kids with tough home lives or mental issues. A healthy school environment is the best place for them, if you isolate all of them together then it creates a jail like atmosphere which severely limits opportunity.
So while I do see benefit and a need for secondary schools for some extreme cases I think we need to be very careful how we handle those situations.