Okay. Now, this is a question
specifically directed towards the anti-choice activists. Let us begin with the most common premise of the anti-choice folks: A fetus is a person. Abortion is killing a person without justification. Ergo, abortion is essentially state sanctioned murder. (Now, let us be clear, I
Do. NOT agree with this premise, at all. However, it
is the premise of nearly every anti-choice advocate. So, to follow this position to its logical conclusion, we are going to allow this premise from the outset.)
So, we have established that a fetus is a person, and abortion is equivalent to murder. Proceeding from that premise, there are actually
two people involved in the planning, and executing of said murder - the doctor, and the pregnant woman. Now, the anti-choice advocates have made no secret of their contempt for the doctors who participate in abortions,
Oklahoma going so far as to pass a new law criminalizing abortions, and levying heavy penalties against the doctors who participate. However, no one, including Oklahoma, seems interested in punishing, or even
acknowledging, the pregnant woman's role in this action. So. What about her? What punishment is reasonable for a woman who contracts a medical professional to murder her unborn child?
College Student Suffocated Her Newborn Baby to Death After Giving Birth in Her Dorm Bathroom
Currently laws are already applied and enforced treating killing of newborns as murder.
What I have suggested to remove this unequal treatment of the woman,
when both partners were responsible for the decision to have sex if not the male
being more responsible in the case of rape, coercion or other sex abuse,
is to either
A. create a separate code, apart from civil or criminal, for health and safety violations
where relationship abuse can be complained of before it becomes a civil or criminal violation.
Then subject both partners to counseling where either partner complains; or another family
member complains where the complainant is also subject to go through counseling until the
problem is identified by a medical professional and the conflict is resolved.
If nobody is criminalized, and if both parties are required to undergo counseling including
the complainant, then both the perpetrator and victim and/or enabler of abusive behavior
can undergo therapy without necessarily blaming any person as in criminal or civil law.
Such a policy would be completely voluntary to opt into, such as a campus community
agreeing to "consent forms" before agreeing to have sexual relations.
B. creating a degree of statutory rape or abuse, where it could be illegal to have
sex if it results in unwanted pregnancy, unwanted abortion, unwanted children.
Any of these could be grounds for arguing the sex was unwanted. So if the
sex is illegal, then in the cases where men coerce women, the MEN would
held responsible instead of current laws that affect women more.
When I brought this up with prolife men, suddenly they were DISTURBED.
What if MEN were held responsible for rape in case of abortion?
Most people never consider what the women feel like to have the legal responsibility on them.
When you turn the tables and put it "all on the men,"
and they feel that's unfair, what does THAT tell you?
So that's why I would propose the approach in A with counseling for relationship abuse
where the responsibility for correcting the problems is MUTUAL and not faulted on any one party,
rather than B that is the reverse of putting too much unequally on women. But it makes a point.
NOTE: I'm anti-abortion in terms of believing in 100% prevention by free choice, by education and offering better options, so that prolife standards are met. I'm prochoice in terms of believing in equal constitutional protections of both prochoice and prolife beliefs equally. I believe in standards of law that will respect and include both sides' beliefs by preventing abortion as close to 100% as possible (we still can't prevent murder 100% either, but we can address and prevent most factors that otherwise lead there), while the preventative measures are enforced by free choice as the law stands now; and any further measures passed should be designed and written collaboratively so they are passed by consensus and don't violate either prochoice or prolife standards. I believe that standard of constitutional equality and inclusion would force all objections to be addressed and all conflicts resolved, so that consensus can be reached.