Yes. Life isn't black and white no matter how some people want it to be.
Killing someone is wrong!...
Anathema doesn't want to deal with complexity, that doesn't make it go away
I don't deal with complexity. I live in a black and white world. One where Murder is wrong but Killing for Honor is always Right.
Therein is your problem. You
don't live in a black and white world, however your limited intellect prevents you from being able to comprehend the complexities, and nuances beyond a simple binary moral understanding. You suffer the same shortsightedness, and lack of vision as any other zealot, regardless of their religion. And make no mistake what you practice, and follow is a religion, whether you wish to call it one, or not.