Would you stay in a sexless relationship?

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    Saw this question on another forum where a condition prevents some women from having intercourse b/c they involuntarily have spasms down yonder, making sex too painful.

    Women, if your husband had a medical impotent problem, would you stand by his side, even if that meant no sex again?

    Men, if your wife had a med condition which prevented her from being intimate sexually(vaginally) could you stand by her side?

    Why or why not?
     
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    Yeah, but that makes it doubly pleasurable for the guy, so there's no net change in the equation.



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    Probably, but it likely doesn't have anything to do with that particular answer this late in life. :)
     
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    Depends what else he can do. :tongue:
     
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    Yes. I would stay in the relationship if I could not have sexual intercourse with my wife. I would do this out of the commitment we made to each other when we married, i.e., "through sickness and in health, for better or for worse, through richer or poorer, till death do you part." I believe a man's word is his word. You are only as good as your word. Besides, even with a medication like Viagra, the parts aren't going to work forever. What happens when the dog won't hunt any longer?
     
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    Yeah, I would stay by my man's side even if he couldn't get it up. There are other ways - and extremely pleasurable ones at that - in which he can pleasure me.

    It would really kill me though not to be able to pleasure him... Sometimes, I enjoy him having an orgasm almost as much as I enjoy mine.

    Yeah, if I really truly love someone and they have this sort of problem, I would definitely stay by their side. Moreover, it's probably not too long before they find 'cure' or 'treatment' even for that (on a positive note).
     
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    At my age, yeah. 20/30 years ago I'd be out the door.
     
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    Seriously - At a certain age I'd almost expect it. But...I'm not really anywhere near there yet. There are other ways and other pleasures.
     
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    I am not married. If I was, I would not leave my wife over something like that. Love doesn't mean just when you are having intercourse. A man that would leave a woman over something like that, is a pathetic excuse for a man, in my opinion.
     
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    I could get laid, but my wife won't let me date.


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    I forgot to give the attribution! Mea culpa.

    I stole the line from an old radio show I heard. And when I say old, I mean within the last 20 years. It was Howard Stern.
     
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