I thought you said vagYou earn trust. You don't wear it on your sleeve like a badge.And how do you determine if you can trust a girl when you first meet her? Does he see a girl from across the room and say man I'd like to trust her.Use her.....abuse her.....lose her......Mine is can I bang her. Then can I trust her. Bang first trust 2nd. LOLThe top quality I looked for in a wife was can I trust her.Well, it all depends really on what you look for in a spouse.
Some men like subservience
Some men like to be challenged
All men want to find their spouse attractive, and, that's either going to be physically or through a sexy attitude and demeanor.
But, since you can't have sex 24/7, you have to like and enjoy that person, so, personality has to come into play. At least in a marriage it does.
If not......she's gone.