Delta4Embassy
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"Why Changing Somebodys Mind, or Yours, is Hard to Do."
Why Changing Somebody?s Mind, or Yours, is Hard to Do. | Psychology Today
last paragraph,
"So the next time you want to have a truly open-minded conversation on a contentious topic with someone who disagrees with you, don't launch right into the facts. Ask them to tell you about some wonderful thing they did, or success they had, or positive feedback they got for something. And try to remember something like that about yourself. Then you might actually have a conversation, instead of the argument you're headed for instead."
Why Changing Somebody?s Mind, or Yours, is Hard to Do. | Psychology Today
last paragraph,
"So the next time you want to have a truly open-minded conversation on a contentious topic with someone who disagrees with you, don't launch right into the facts. Ask them to tell you about some wonderful thing they did, or success they had, or positive feedback they got for something. And try to remember something like that about yourself. Then you might actually have a conversation, instead of the argument you're headed for instead."