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But.. but.. but... cafe.. that does not fit uscitizen's ignorant stereotype used to bash the military and the 'right'
LOL
And just why is this item news?
Should the US prosecute a single mother who won't leave her newborn?
Ohh being in the military is just what some youngsters need to get their ass in gear.
But for some of us it just about ruined us.
It is not for everyone, esp the combat part.
As her attorney points out there are several available means to resolve the situation. I can't fault her for not leaving with no where for her son to go that she would be confident.
Army charges single mom who refused deployment
That is incorrect. Military people are required to have more then just a single source. Her plans for the care of her child were inadequate. It is not the military's problem that she failed to provide suitable care for her child.Death Star philosophy?The hyperbolic response is an attempt to not address what I suggested. If she had failed to make any arrangements I'd be inclined towards a stiffer response but given that she did make plans and the fact she informed her COC they fell through it is reasonable to find a compromise instead acting with a Death Star philosophy.
She did fail to make arrangements, otherwise she would not have missed the troop movement. The military's response is reasonable. What sentence she gets will be a matter for debate.
No. Failing to make arrangements would mean she never arranged a caregiver for her son. She did make the arrangements and through no fault of her own they fell through.
I wonder why this was ignored?Would this have been an issue to you CurveLight if it had been a single dad who missed a troop movement because he had failed to adequately provide for his children?
I wonder why this was ignored?Would this have been an issue to you CurveLight if it had been a single dad who missed a troop movement because he had failed to adequately provide for his children?
Sorry Curve but when you have me agreeing with DD then it should be pretty clear that YOU are in the wrong.
But would they have? Are there any documented cases where this has actually happened?
-TSO
The military tries to help where possible to take care of their own WHEN YOU PLAY BY THE RULES.. this woman did not play by the rules....
Oh please. Even the military doesn't play by the rules as much as you are pretending here. When she knew of the problem she informed her superiors. Don't act like she tried to pull a fast one. Or you could continue to impress the hell out of me by using the rep button to call someone a moron because you need to compensate for your lack of communication abilities.
Again... it is not the military's job.. it is HER job to make those arrangements and to keep them current and VIABLE.... she is indeed in violation of UCMJ
How is THIS for communication ability - YOU ARE A PHONY, A LIAR, AND IGNORANT TO HOW THE MILITARY RUNS
Then you missed My point completely.I wonder why this was ignored?Would this have been an issue to you CurveLight if it had been a single dad who missed a troop movement because he had failed to adequately provide for his children?
I didn't ignore it as I responded to it earlier but there was a glitch after I hit the "submit reply" button so maybe it didn't actually post. In any case, what I said is the biological relationship to the child is irrelevant. It wouldn't even matter if the primary caregiver was not biologically related because the principle remains supreme. She didn't permanently refuse deployment but only wanted to find a suitable caregiver. I don't see any objectionable about that and certainly nothing worthy of a court martial.
Eta: I just saw the post did make it on the thread. It's number 97.
CaféAuLait;1903181 said:The reason the plan fell through is irrelevant. For whatever reason, her mother returned the child to her after keeping him for two weeks. When this happened she informed her COC and all she asked was more time to find a replacement. She was not permanently refusing deployment. She was refusing to leave her son with strangers and would have deployed when she found a replacement. Under the circumstances that seemed reasonable.
She was given an extension once already to find care.
Mom chooses son over service - CNN.com
And curve light's stance is now completely blown away
Then you missed My point completely.I wonder why this was ignored?
I didn't ignore it as I responded to it earlier but there was a glitch after I hit the "submit reply" button so maybe it didn't actually post. In any case, what I said is the biological relationship to the child is irrelevant. It wouldn't even matter if the primary caregiver was not biologically related because the principle remains supreme. She didn't permanently refuse deployment but only wanted to find a suitable caregiver. I don't see any objectionable about that and certainly nothing worthy of a court martial.
Eta: I just saw the post did make it on the thread. It's number 97.
I was asking if you would feel the same outrage if a single father was being prosecuted if he also failed to provide adequate care for his children should he be deployed? Or is this outrage because the person is a woman?