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It's no secret that many marriages are unhappy, I'm not a cynic, but this has been widely documented, as far back as "Married Love" in the early 1900s, which was one of the more popular guides for making marriages work. The notion of "love at first sight" is likely more of a popular Romanticism sentiment from the likes of Rousseau and others who have influenced popular culture - I'm not against the idea of love, but I believe it requires sacrifice, and isn't the product of mere "predestination" in and of itself. (From a religious perspective, this seems contrary to how marriages and love are depicted in the Bible, for example).
What are people's thoughts on this, or the primary causes of unhappy marriages?
As far as divorce goes, I'm aware that vows such as "till death due us part" were primarily a Catholic thing, and that most marriages likely do not include this type of vow; on divorce, what is your opinion, and under what circumstances would you believe a divorce to be the best or only option?
Thanks for your time.
What are people's thoughts on this, or the primary causes of unhappy marriages?
As far as divorce goes, I'm aware that vows such as "till death due us part" were primarily a Catholic thing, and that most marriages likely do not include this type of vow; on divorce, what is your opinion, and under what circumstances would you believe a divorce to be the best or only option?
Thanks for your time.