JenyEliza
Princess of Rhetoric
Number one issue: How is it fucking possible that TWO girls could BOTH get herpes without contact, if such a condition exists, even???? You should know- neither of the girls have oral herpes, so there is no way that they could have transferred the sores from the mouth to their own genitals.
Since Issue number one is so blatantly SCREAMING at me that they have been or are being sexually abused, then the real question is- AM I CRAZY HERE OR IS MY SUSPICION OF THIS TYPE OF ABUSE GOING ON RATIONAL??
Here are the pros and cons that have made me hesitant to call police and ask for an investigation to be launched:
While I have absolutely NO doubt you are a kind and very loving aunt, I think your hysteria is showing here.
#1. A DOCTOR (a REQUIRED abuse reporter) has diagnosed these girls with herpees simplex virus. He DID NOT see fit to REPORT abuse here--and he could lose his license if he didn't report suspected abuse, so obviously he sees a situation you don't.
#2. There IS a herpes simplex virus you can get "down there" that is NOT genital herpes. If either girl had a cold sore on her lip and then touched HER OWN nether regions before washing her hands, she could have easily transmitted the virus "down there".
You failed to read (or maybe remember) the part where I said that neither girl has oral herpes. Oh and I forgot to mention that my the mother has has oral herpes her whole life, caused by kissing her own mother who had the oral kind. I have never seen either one of the girls with a fever blister, so this is doubtful, as well.
#3. These girls are two years apart. Probably share a room (me and my 2 years younger sister did). She came down with pin worms. So did I. Nobody abused us. Close proximity breeds disease with young children.
They have separate rooms. Its a split floor plan, and no room is even barriered by a wall to another bedroom, with the exception of the guest room, which shares a wall with the master bedroom. In any event, sharing a room is not a way for EITHER ONE of them to contract genital herpes.
Auntie, you need to STEP OFF before you ruin these little girls' lives, having them taken from their parent(s) and put in child services foster care. Beyond that you will destroy what little relationship you have left with their mother, and after the investigation concludes you'll never see these children again when they are returned home.
I promise you that will be the ONLY outcome of any "investigation" you launch.
I know. I have seen a similar scenario played out in my own family--DFACS concluded NO abuse took place, closed the case and the mother and children involved haven't spoken to the reporter in years. It's been almost 5 years since the reporter has even had a PICTURE of these children.
So tread carefully before you go there.
I have been pondering this for MONTHS, not minutes like you. I know the outcome potential, and I know that I could get custody of them, if need be. They would NOT go to foster care.
Ah the holy grail. Finally.
Thanks for being honest.
YOU WANT CUSTODY. But hun, that's not how it works. The REPORTER doesn't GET custody. Just to keep proceedings honest, they give custody to a disintersted third party. Dumbshit.
We had a "concerned reporter" just like you. She has one child and can't have any more. She claimed to "love" my kids and she saw "abuse" at every turn.
In truth, she just wanted more kids. She reported her "suspicions". DFACS did an investigation and almost immediately concluded she was a power-hungry bitch with control issues, and mental issues because she could have no more children. NO ABUSE, UNFOUNDED.
This woman continued to hound me. She hounded me and my children until we ended all contact. She doesn't even know where we live now and has no phone number to contact us. And NEVER EVER WILL.
My kids want NOTHING to do with her. Neither do I.
We still get a Christmas card from her every year with a picture of her, her husband and her sad only child. With gift cards tucked inside for my kids. Transmitted by the one relative who knows where we live.
Guess what? We spend those gift cards and enjoy. But we don't send a card to her. We send no gifts. We don't even send a thank you note or a thank you phone call.
FUCK HER. She put us THROUGH HELL.
Never ever again.
Be very careful Auntie. You sound as off-the-rocker as our stupid reporter.
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