You cannot imagine the hell that would break loose if I found out they were forcing my granddaughters to share a bathroom with boys. And libs/progressives don't get why many more parents are choosing to home-school their children.
You do have a point about who sees what, though. If parents are discrete enough to coach their gender-confused children to maintain a low profile, and don't make some big deal about what they are doing with/for their children at the administrative level, who would know differently. But no, they have to force their children to "come out" at an age when this type of information should be totally irrelevant in their lives. They have to insist on some special dispensation to accommodate one, regardless of the harm it does the many. As much as the radical community hates the concept, "Don't ask, don't tell" helps to protect those who consider themselves "different".
You seem to have confused the issue of homosexual adults, and transgender children.
This is not about sexual preference.
Well, yes, actually it is. I suspect it has much more to do with parental preference and agenda than it has to do with the children. And as I observed, it the parents are capable of training the child to be discrete, how would anyone else know? I wouldn't be surprised if there are plenty of your "gender-confused" kids out there who haven't been "outted" by their parents.
I bet there are plenty of little girls who the school has no idea were born male, or little boys that were born female. However for some it's not as simple as switching school districts and enrolling your child as the opposite gender.
It's pretty hard to hide when your 3rd grader who was called Timmy last year shows up for 4th grade with a new name ,in a dress.