Lysistrata
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There is no reason for the federal of state governments to not recognize a marriage. You, yourself, have stated that government should not be involved in marriages, and I disagree with you there since the law is concerned with things like taxation, rights to property, rights to make decisions for cometose partners, rights of inheritance, etc. These are all civil law matters.So now that we agree marriage should have limitations, it's a matter of opinion what those limits should be. Gays could always get married. If they found a religion that was willing to marry them, they got married and nobody from the federal or state government stopped them. It's just that they didn't recognize the marriage.
Yes. I have standards. They are being met. But you are lying. Gays were not allowed to get married, legally, until the Supreme Court decision. Actually, there was a judicial decision that okayed the firing of a state-government lawyer who had a religious marriage ceremony with her same-sex partner. I am wracking my brain for the name of the case to post a link and can't come up with it, but I remember the case well.
If you want to get married, why don't you go down to the courthouse and get a license, and/or have a ceremony right there. If you want a religious ceremony, go plan it.
Marriage was always a religious rite. It was even wrote about in the First Testament. It was the same here in this country when it was founded, but as time went on, government got involved and adopted marriage.
So now that marriage meets your standards, everything is just fine and dandy? What about those of us who's standards marriage doesn't meet? And when the time comes when your standards are broken, what will you say then?
Property rights, inheritances, all that could be worked out legislatively without marriage. As far as spouse only visitation rights, that is not law, that is hospital policy. Same holds true with medical coverage. There is no law that states your spouses health insurance company must put you on their policy.
Yes, gays were always allowed to get married. Who tried to stop them? There was no law against it, it's just that the state didn't have to recognize the marriage until that SC decision. Now states are being forced to accept it.[/QUOTE]
So the states have to recognize marriages among LGBTs. So what? There is no skin off of anyone's teeth. Everybody now has the same under civil law. What these various religious sects do is their own business. Who cares about them? We're talking civil law here. Individual rights are individual rights. They are not subject to a popular vote. Why should a person be prevented from exercising an individual right based on some stranger's opinion? Go cry to your preacher-creature about your "standards." They have nothing to do with civil law.
And, practically speaking, you people who claim to have "standards" that are somehow violated by these people you don't know getting married, don't raise a ruckus when famous whores like trump and gingrich marry, commit adultery, divorce, marry, commit adultery, divorce, marry, commit adultery, divorce. You don't raise a ruckus about "standards" when phony "Christians" make no bones about chasing teenagers to con them into sham marriages before they have a chance to grow up.
The upshot is that we live by civil law, not the laws of any religion.