dilloduck
Diamond Member
I asked "Who cares? You think the sperm donor should get an overriding vote on a decision that could kill the mother?" to which you replied "I do". That's textbook Taliban thinking.
My mistake---I was just responding to the "who cares?" portion of your post.
I think the egg donor AND the sperm donor should resolve this issue as a team. They created them as a team and they will hopefully be raising them as a team. In this situation with the mothers' and 3 embryos' lives at risk I would hope that the Doctor, egg donor and sperm donor all would agree to save as much life as possible even at the risk of the loss of embryos. I'm sure it would be a bittersweet decision to have to make.