Do we refuse a woman an abortion because she carelessly hooked up with a guy who disappeared as soon as he found out she was pregnant?self defense should not be allowed when there were other options
Do we refuse a drug addict treatment because he knew he could become addicted when he started using?
Do we turn gang bangers away from the ER because they were shot during a drug deal gone bad?
For each of these, there are other options that would have prevented them from getting into the situation they are in.