I am going to answer this again...this time without the joke. Some same traditional marriage is the LIFE LONG union of a man and woman. With divorce rates at nearly 50%, the defintion of marriage has already been changed. The divorce rate proves that marriage has a "flexible" definition at best. But lets say we dont redefine our defintion but instead redefine our VIEW of the definition. Redefining our VIEW of marriage to include same sex couples is simply not that big of a deal. How about The LIFE LONG union of two consenting adults?