Gay Cowboy Loses Everything When His Partner Dies

Kagom said:
1) Your bumper sticker sayings were funny
2) The gay bumper stickers are just a display that you're proud to be gay.
it's simple.... if you're gay, no problem. If you want to shove it in my face... big problem.

It's like this, if someone tries to get you to convert to a born again Christian and is in your face about it, how would you feel? The in-your-face stuff bothers most people.

In polite society, we don't talk about our sex lives in public. Nor do we expect people to be proud of it.

Hey... if I have irritible bowel syndrome, should I have a bumper sticker ?
I see born again Christians getting in people's faces all the time, including in Muslim countries ... stupid fools.
Let's ban hetero movies showing sexual attraction ... flaunting their sexual preferences.
 
Just as some people are born with six fingers, or a cleft palate, or autistic, or like twins with their skulls growing together, nature can make mistakes. But all are birth defects, and most born with a defect seek help to remedy their affliction. Queers using the "born this way" excuse are doing nothing more than ignoring the fact that they were born with a mental illness. They are making a conscious decision to act out the perversion instead of seeking help. Same thing with pedophiles, bestiality, necrophilia, rapists, murderers, or the little boy that decides to steal a pack of gum down at the corner store, kleptomania. Being sexually attracted to the opposite sex is a defect in the cognitive mental process, and one should be treated for it, not told that it's something cute, an alternative, or acceptable as behavior. Anyone who condones this behavior is NOT doing homosexuals or lesbians any good at all. They are only contributing to their illness.

I live in the deep south. Folks this way have known for years that gays are born that way.
Who would choose to be persecuted?
That is as stupid an argument as I have heard in 40 years.
Gays choose to be gay so others can persecute them.:cuckoo::cuckoo:
Homosexuals fall in love with folks of the same sex. Facts conflict with your idoelogy.
Gays and homosexuals: what a non issue. Even us folks in the deep south know that.
You come here and admit that at one time in your life you asdked yourself this:
"Hmm, boys are nice and girls are nice but I choose:"
That ain't the way it worked with me dude but more power to you. I never thought about considering boys as I, like all humans, was born this way. I was born attracted to girls. Gays are born attracted to the same sex.
You may have considered boys as an option but I never did.
 
Kagom said:
1) Your bumper sticker sayings were funny
2) The gay bumper stickers are just a display that you're proud to be gay.
it's simple.... if you're gay, no problem. If you want to shove it in my face... big problem.

It's like this, if someone tries to get you to convert to a born again Christian and is in your face about it, how would you feel? The in-your-face stuff bothers most people.

In polite society, we don't talk about our sex lives in public. Nor do we expect people to be proud of it.

Hey... if I have irritible bowel syndrome, should I have a bumper sticker ?

Actually straight people shove it in our face all the time.
 
In 39 states, you can be fired or evicted for being gay.

Only in states where gay marriage is allowed will courts follow wills made by gay people.

In states not allowing gay marriage of any kind, a first cousin blood relative can challenge a gay will and win in court.

All those straights who say this is wrong are wrong. It's just the way it is. Gays don't want special rights, they want human rights.

I don't expect Republicans to understand that. Those are people who spit on their own gay children and pretend they don't. But they do. If they can lie about Iraq, the president, Democrats, science, they can lie about this. It's what they do. What they know. The only thing they are good at.
 
this is where I can agree with and support the arguments of homosexuals who want a "civil union". I don't want them married, but for pete's sake they do need to be able to have some sort of legal rights.

http://www.indystar.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2005512310342

December 31, 2005

Partner's death ends happy life on ranch
2 decades together mean nothing in Oklahoma law

By Jessie Torrisi
Columbia News Service
On the face of it, Sam Beaumont, 61, with his cowboy hat, deep-throated chuckle and Northwestern drawl, is not so different from the ranch hands in Ang Lee's critically acclaimed film "Brokeback Mountain," which opened in Indianapolis on Wednesday.

More "Romeo & Juliet" than "Rent," "Brokeback Mountain" challenges modern perceptions of what it means to be gay in rural America.
"Listen," the character Twist says to del Mar as part of a dream that goes unrealized. "I'm thinking, tell you what, if you and me had a little ranch together -- little cow and calf operation, your horses -- it'd be some sweet life."
That pretty much describes the life Beaumont had. He settled down with Earl Meadows and tended 50 head of cattle for a quarter-century on an Oklahoma ranch. "I was raised to be independent. I didn't really care what other people thought," Beaumont said.
In 1977, Beaumont was divorced and raising three sons after a dozen years in the Air Force when Meadows walked up to him near the Arkansas River.
"It was a pretty day -- January 15th, 65 degrees," Beaumont said. "He came up, we got to talkin' till 2 in the morning. I don't even remember what we said." But "I knew it was something special."
Beaumont moved to be with Meadows in his partner's hometown of Bristow, Okla., a place of 4,300 people. Together, they bought a ranch and raised Beaumont's three sons. The mortgage and most of the couple's possessions were put in Meadows' name.
"I had two dads"

During the day, Meadows worked as a comptroller for Black & Decker. He'd drop the boys at school on his way to work. At home, Beaumont took care of the ranch, feeding and tagging cattle, cooking and cleaning, and once built a barn.
"As far as I was concerned, I had two dads," said one of Beaumont's sons, now 33, who requested anonymity. He was 2 years old when Meadows joined the family.
"Dad helped with schoolwork and all the stuff around the house, taught me to ride horses and milk cows. Earl used to take me to the company picnics and Christmas parties. He bought me my first car."
Most of their friends, Beaumont said, were straight couples, women who worked at Black & Decker, "teachers and doctors and lawyers," and childhood friends of Meadows who often came to dinner at the ranch.
"People treated them fine," said Eunice Lawson, who runs a grocery store in Bristow.
But in 1999, Meadows had a stroke and Beaumont took care of him for a year until he died at age 56.
That's where the fantasy of a life together on the range collides with reality. After a quarter-century on the ranch he shared with his partner, Beaumont lost it all on a legal technicality in a state that doesn't recognize domestic partnerships.
Meadows' will, which left everything to Beaumont, was fought in court by a cousin of the deceased and was declared invalid by the Oklahoma Court of Appeals in 2003 because it was short one witness signature.
Unequal under the law

A judge ruled the rancher had to put the property, which was appraised at $100,000, on the market. The animals were sold. Beaumont had to move.
Because Meadows had no biological children or surviving parents, his estate was divided up among his heirs. When the ranch sells, the proceeds are to be divided among dozens of Meadows' cousins.
"They took the estate away from me," said Beaumont, who said he put about $200,000 of his own money into the ranch. "Everything that had Earl's name on it, they took. They took it all and didn't bat an eye."
Every state has common-law marriage rules that protect heterosexual couples. If someone dies without a will, or with a faulty one, his or her live-in partner is treated as the rightful inheritor.
But only seven states currently give gay couples protections -- such as inheritance rights and health benefits -- through marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships. What's more, Oklahoma last year amended its state constitution to ensure that neither marriage nor any similar arrangement is extended to same-sex couples.
Today, there are roughly 90,000 gay couples living in small-town America, according to the 2000 U.S. Census, and more than 5,700 in Oklahoma.
Last year, Beaumont moved to nearby Wewoka, Okla., to a one-bedroom place with 350 acres for his horses, white Pyrenees and Great Dane to roam. He said he was continuing to fight the cousins, who are suing for back rent for the years he lived on the ranch.

I'm a bit curious as to what makes you think marriage or civil unions or whatever-the-fuck you want to euphemize them as is going to change this sort of story in the slightest. If the courts don't respect wills, what makes you think they're going to respect what is, in such instances, a much less comprehensive and binding inheritance arrangement? More to the point, whatever made you think inheritances to legally-married spouses aren't ever successfully challenged in court right now? Ever hear of Anna Nicole Smith?
 
If he had a second witness signature, the property would have gone to his intended beneficiary. That's not anti-gay; it's simply the consequence of his failure to follow the probate rules in his state. No to mention that fact that had he put his boyfriend's name on the deed, it would have automatically passed to him. Straight or gay, it is not advisable to rely on the state's rules of intestacy to have your property distributed. Too much can go wrong.

I thought the article was going to say that he wasn't allowed to leave property to his boyfriend. That would be unacceptable.

Why on Earth would the article say that? So far as I know, you can will your property to anyone you like in any state in the union, so long as you execute the contract properly. As I've pointed out on other threads, little old ladies leave their estates to their cats all the time.
 
KarlMarx said:
P.S. What's with the gay bumper stickers? Those make me mad, too. What are those for? You think that the world is going to give you a freaking medal for being gay? And I can imagine Mr and Mrs Smith with their little kids, embarrassingly trying to explain (or more likely lie) why the car in front of them has all the pretty rainbows. I can imagine if every other sexual deviant advertised their preferences on the back of their car, truck or SUV...

"I f--- my brother/sister"

"Ask me about my panties"

"You won't want another, when you get sucked off by your mother!"

"Man-animal love - just say yes"

"I'm sexy and bold because I like to f--- them when they're dead and cold"

"A boy needs a man... to do him up the can"

"Why bother when you can get it from your father?"

"People who love each other, pee on each other"

"No matter if it's sunny or if it rains, the weather is always right for whips and chains!"
1) Your bumper sticker sayings were funny
2) The gay bumper stickers are just a display that you're proud to be gay.

Why would anyone be "proud" to be gay? It's not an achievement or something you accomplish. It just is. That's like being proud to be brunette.
 
this is where I can agree with and support the arguments of homosexuals who want a "civil union". I don't want them married, but for pete's sake they do need to be able to have some sort of legal rights.

http://www.indystar.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2005512310342

December 31, 2005

Partner's death ends happy life on ranch
2 decades together mean nothing in Oklahoma law

By Jessie Torrisi
Columbia News Service
On the face of it, Sam Beaumont, 61, with his cowboy hat, deep-throated chuckle and Northwestern drawl, is not so different from the ranch hands in Ang Lee's critically acclaimed film "Brokeback Mountain," which opened in Indianapolis on Wednesday.

More "Romeo & Juliet" than "Rent," "Brokeback Mountain" challenges modern perceptions of what it means to be gay in rural America.
"Listen," the character Twist says to del Mar as part of a dream that goes unrealized. "I'm thinking, tell you what, if you and me had a little ranch together -- little cow and calf operation, your horses -- it'd be some sweet life."
That pretty much describes the life Beaumont had. He settled down with Earl Meadows and tended 50 head of cattle for a quarter-century on an Oklahoma ranch. "I was raised to be independent. I didn't really care what other people thought," Beaumont said.
In 1977, Beaumont was divorced and raising three sons after a dozen years in the Air Force when Meadows walked up to him near the Arkansas River.
"It was a pretty day -- January 15th, 65 degrees," Beaumont said. "He came up, we got to talkin' till 2 in the morning. I don't even remember what we said." But "I knew it was something special."
Beaumont moved to be with Meadows in his partner's hometown of Bristow, Okla., a place of 4,300 people. Together, they bought a ranch and raised Beaumont's three sons. The mortgage and most of the couple's possessions were put in Meadows' name.
"I had two dads"

During the day, Meadows worked as a comptroller for Black & Decker. He'd drop the boys at school on his way to work. At home, Beaumont took care of the ranch, feeding and tagging cattle, cooking and cleaning, and once built a barn.
"As far as I was concerned, I had two dads," said one of Beaumont's sons, now 33, who requested anonymity. He was 2 years old when Meadows joined the family.
"Dad helped with schoolwork and all the stuff around the house, taught me to ride horses and milk cows. Earl used to take me to the company picnics and Christmas parties. He bought me my first car."
Most of their friends, Beaumont said, were straight couples, women who worked at Black & Decker, "teachers and doctors and lawyers," and childhood friends of Meadows who often came to dinner at the ranch.
"People treated them fine," said Eunice Lawson, who runs a grocery store in Bristow.
But in 1999, Meadows had a stroke and Beaumont took care of him for a year until he died at age 56.
That's where the fantasy of a life together on the range collides with reality. After a quarter-century on the ranch he shared with his partner, Beaumont lost it all on a legal technicality in a state that doesn't recognize domestic partnerships.
Meadows' will, which left everything to Beaumont, was fought in court by a cousin of the deceased and was declared invalid by the Oklahoma Court of Appeals in 2003 because it was short one witness signature.
Unequal under the law

A judge ruled the rancher had to put the property, which was appraised at $100,000, on the market. The animals were sold. Beaumont had to move.
Because Meadows had no biological children or surviving parents, his estate was divided up among his heirs. When the ranch sells, the proceeds are to be divided among dozens of Meadows' cousins.
"They took the estate away from me," said Beaumont, who said he put about $200,000 of his own money into the ranch. "Everything that had Earl's name on it, they took. They took it all and didn't bat an eye."
Every state has common-law marriage rules that protect heterosexual couples. If someone dies without a will, or with a faulty one, his or her live-in partner is treated as the rightful inheritor.
But only seven states currently give gay couples protections -- such as inheritance rights and health benefits -- through marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships. What's more, Oklahoma last year amended its state constitution to ensure that neither marriage nor any similar arrangement is extended to same-sex couples.
Today, there are roughly 90,000 gay couples living in small-town America, according to the 2000 U.S. Census, and more than 5,700 in Oklahoma.
Last year, Beaumont moved to nearby Wewoka, Okla., to a one-bedroom place with 350 acres for his horses, white Pyrenees and Great Dane to roam. He said he was continuing to fight the cousins, who are suing for back rent for the years he lived on the ranch.

Don't gays know about wills, putting property in both their names theres lots of ways of getting lovers personal without marriage ,unions, or gov.
 
KarlMarx said:
P.S. What's with the gay bumper stickers? Those make me mad, too. What are those for? You think that the world is going to give you a freaking medal for being gay? And I can imagine Mr and Mrs Smith with their little kids, embarrassingly trying to explain (or more likely lie) why the car in front of them has all the pretty rainbows. I can imagine if every other sexual deviant advertised their preferences on the back of their car, truck or SUV...

"I f--- my brother/sister"

"Ask me about my panties"

"You won't want another, when you get sucked off by your mother!"

"Man-animal love - just say yes"

"I'm sexy and bold because I like to f--- them when they're dead and cold"

"A boy needs a man... to do him up the can"

"Why bother when you can get it from your father?"

"People who love each other, pee on each other"

"No matter if it's sunny or if it rains, the weather is always right for whips and chains!"
1) Your bumper sticker sayings were funny
2) The gay bumper stickers are just a display that you're proud to be gay.

Why would anyone be "proud" to be gay? It's not an achievement or something you accomplish. It just is. That's like being proud to be brunette.

Or proud to be Irish American. Why would anyone want to be that? :eusa_eh:
 
this is where I can agree with and support the arguments of homosexuals who want a "civil union". I don't want them married, but for pete's sake they do need to be able to have some sort of legal rights.

http://www.indystar.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2005512310342

December 31, 2005

Partner's death ends happy life on ranch
2 decades together mean nothing in Oklahoma law

By Jessie Torrisi
Columbia News Service
On the face of it, Sam Beaumont, 61, with his cowboy hat, deep-throated chuckle and Northwestern drawl, is not so different from the ranch hands in Ang Lee's critically acclaimed film "Brokeback Mountain," which opened in Indianapolis on Wednesday.

More "Romeo & Juliet" than "Rent," "Brokeback Mountain" challenges modern perceptions of what it means to be gay in rural America.
"Listen," the character Twist says to del Mar as part of a dream that goes unrealized. "I'm thinking, tell you what, if you and me had a little ranch together -- little cow and calf operation, your horses -- it'd be some sweet life."
That pretty much describes the life Beaumont had. He settled down with Earl Meadows and tended 50 head of cattle for a quarter-century on an Oklahoma ranch. "I was raised to be independent. I didn't really care what other people thought," Beaumont said.
In 1977, Beaumont was divorced and raising three sons after a dozen years in the Air Force when Meadows walked up to him near the Arkansas River.
"It was a pretty day -- January 15th, 65 degrees," Beaumont said. "He came up, we got to talkin' till 2 in the morning. I don't even remember what we said." But "I knew it was something special."
Beaumont moved to be with Meadows in his partner's hometown of Bristow, Okla., a place of 4,300 people. Together, they bought a ranch and raised Beaumont's three sons. The mortgage and most of the couple's possessions were put in Meadows' name.
"I had two dads"

During the day, Meadows worked as a comptroller for Black & Decker. He'd drop the boys at school on his way to work. At home, Beaumont took care of the ranch, feeding and tagging cattle, cooking and cleaning, and once built a barn.
"As far as I was concerned, I had two dads," said one of Beaumont's sons, now 33, who requested anonymity. He was 2 years old when Meadows joined the family.
"Dad helped with schoolwork and all the stuff around the house, taught me to ride horses and milk cows. Earl used to take me to the company picnics and Christmas parties. He bought me my first car."
Most of their friends, Beaumont said, were straight couples, women who worked at Black & Decker, "teachers and doctors and lawyers," and childhood friends of Meadows who often came to dinner at the ranch.
"People treated them fine," said Eunice Lawson, who runs a grocery store in Bristow.
But in 1999, Meadows had a stroke and Beaumont took care of him for a year until he died at age 56.
That's where the fantasy of a life together on the range collides with reality. After a quarter-century on the ranch he shared with his partner, Beaumont lost it all on a legal technicality in a state that doesn't recognize domestic partnerships.
Meadows' will, which left everything to Beaumont, was fought in court by a cousin of the deceased and was declared invalid by the Oklahoma Court of Appeals in 2003 because it was short one witness signature.
Unequal under the law

A judge ruled the rancher had to put the property, which was appraised at $100,000, on the market. The animals were sold. Beaumont had to move.
Because Meadows had no biological children or surviving parents, his estate was divided up among his heirs. When the ranch sells, the proceeds are to be divided among dozens of Meadows' cousins.
"They took the estate away from me," said Beaumont, who said he put about $200,000 of his own money into the ranch. "Everything that had Earl's name on it, they took. They took it all and didn't bat an eye."
Every state has common-law marriage rules that protect heterosexual couples. If someone dies without a will, or with a faulty one, his or her live-in partner is treated as the rightful inheritor.
But only seven states currently give gay couples protections -- such as inheritance rights and health benefits -- through marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships. What's more, Oklahoma last year amended its state constitution to ensure that neither marriage nor any similar arrangement is extended to same-sex couples.
Today, there are roughly 90,000 gay couples living in small-town America, according to the 2000 U.S. Census, and more than 5,700 in Oklahoma.
Last year, Beaumont moved to nearby Wewoka, Okla., to a one-bedroom place with 350 acres for his horses, white Pyrenees and Great Dane to roam. He said he was continuing to fight the cousins, who are suing for back rent for the years he lived on the ranch.

Don't gays know about wills, putting property in both their names theres lots of ways of getting lovers personal without marriage ,unions, or gov.

It doesn't matter. There have been many cases where the judge tells the survivor to sell the house or business and give half the money to the blood relative of the deceased, even if the guy had been disowned. The law is the law. It just doesn't recognize gays as "people".

Why is this a surprise? We don't let gays in the military. They can be fired from sensitive government jobs. In 39 states they can be fired or evicted. Why the "straight surprise" at what goes on all the time? It's like suddenly discovering rain is "wet".

Oh, I get it. Because the right can't say gays want "special" rights. Ok, now I understand.
 

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