It is very risky and that's why its not for me. I don't much like to share either lol.
I will admit to dabbling in that lifestyle with one guy I dated. It didn't work. Mainly because he wasn't honest about it...but also because I just couldn't do it mentally.
But I do know couples that have done it for years and it has worked. Whether its swinging or an open relationship..its not for everyone, but I don't begrudge the people that it does work for. But that's not cheating, because youre supposed to be honest and open about it. Your partner is supposed to know about who your sleeping with and is ok with it.
Those who have nothing to hide..hide nothing. Once you have to lie...its over.
I will admit to dabbling in that lifestyle with one guy I dated. It didn't work. Mainly because he wasn't honest about it...but also because I just couldn't do it mentally.
But I do know couples that have done it for years and it has worked. Whether its swinging or an open relationship..its not for everyone, but I don't begrudge the people that it does work for. But that's not cheating, because youre supposed to be honest and open about it. Your partner is supposed to know about who your sleeping with and is ok with it.
Those who have nothing to hide..hide nothing. Once you have to lie...its over.