Sex and Marriage

[Bonzi]

What do you think is a "healthy" amount of sex for married people to have?

Do you think it's normal/healthy to have less sex as time goes on?

What do you think the solution is if one partner wants sex more than the other? Do you need to have sex even if you don't want to, or, should you NEVER have sex if you don't want to?

 

[Moonglow]

Depends, who you are screwing while married....

 

[G.T.]

1x per week is our average and its really really rare that we miss.

 

[Moonglow]

I haven't had sex with my wife since she moved in with her boyfriend.....

 

[Delta4Embassy]

What do you think is a "healthy" amount of sex for married people to have?

Do you think it's normal/healthy to have less sex as time goes on?

What do you think the solution is if one partner wants sex more than the other? Do you need to have sex even if you don't want to, or, should you NEVER have sex if you don't want to?

As with diet, what's healthy for one will kill another.

Being married doesn't make your spouse your sex slave. Like to think, but not positive every state has marital rape illegal yet.

 

[Bonzi]

I haven't had sex with my wife since she moved in with her boyfriend.....

well.. what about your girlfriend? she doesn't mind your "nub"

 

[Moonglow]

I haven't had sex with my wife since she moved in with her boyfriend.....

well.. what about your girlfriend? she doesn't mind your "nub"

The bulge they go after is the wallet...

 

[Bonzi]

The bulge they go after is the wallet...

You've been talking to ChrisL on here too long....

 

[G.T.]

What do you think is a "healthy" amount of sex for married people to have?

Do you think it's normal/healthy to have less sex as time goes on?

What do you think the solution is if one partner wants sex more than the other? Do you need to have sex even if you don't want to, or, should you NEVER have sex if you don't want to?

As with diet, what's healthy for one will kill another.

Being married doesn't make your spouse your sex slave. Like to think, but not positive every state has marital rape illegal yet.

Youre not married you fucking idiot. Go somewhere.

 

[Diana1180]

What do you think is a "healthy" amount of sex for married people to have?
I think that depends on the couple. I think twice per week is average for most long term/live in couples...but I know my friend would get it every day from her boyfriend if she could.

Do you think it's normal/healthy to have less sex as time goes on?
I think people get into routines and less sex is bound to happen. Its important to make time to date while married.

What do you think the solution is if one partner wants sex more than the other? Do you need to have sex even if you don't want to, or, should you NEVER have sex if you don't want to?
When I was married there were times I was not completely in the mood...but quickly got in the mood as we started fooling around. If its an ongoing thing it could be a problem if I always want sex and he doesn't. I would start to feel unattractive. Communication is key in this area...

 

[ChrisL]

The bulge they go after is the wallet...

You've been talking to ChrisL on here too long....

His "bulge" isn't nearly large enough.

 

[Muhammed]

1x per week is our average and its really really rare that we miss.

That's probably less than average, but to each their own. My wife and I have had sex every single day since the day we met. Usually several times a day.

We did it 3 times this week already and it's only Sunday afternoon.

 

[G.T.]

1x per week is our average and its really really rare that we miss.

That's probably less than average, but to each their own. My wife and I have had sex every single day since the day we met. Usually several times a day.

We did it 3 times this week already and it's only Sunday afternoon.

no its above the average

 

[DGS49]

There is a mountain of data on average frequency of intercourse among happy, healthy married couples. Many factors have to be eliminated in order to find the "true" numbers. Both parties have to be healthy and have normal sexual inclinations, with no outside factors that would impede the activities.

Frequency of sexual activity generally decreases in a linear way, and is fairly consistent with the testosterone level of the husband.

Teens who are married will have sex 4-6 times per week, possibly interrupted by the wife's menstrual period. In their 20's it will become 3x/wk, dropping steadily until the 50's, when it is 1-2 times per week. After 65, a couple times a month. Beyond that, it is almost exclusively determined by health issues.

But in actual cases, it varies all over the map, and SHOULD BE DETERMINED by their joint desires and inclinations. There are couples in their 30's who only do it a couple times a year, and couples in their 60's who do it a couple times a week. Problems arise when there is a great disparity in desires, which may or may not be resolvable through counseling or pharmaceuticals. I understand there is a 'Viagra for Women" that will be hitting the market soon.

And don't forget the impact of Cialis and Viagra. They have resurrected the sex lives of many couples over 60, many of whom now are on a "schedule."

Usually this question comes up when a man or woman is concerned that s/he isn't getting his or her fair share of nookie. Counseling is the best first step, if both parties are willing.

 

[ChrisL]

Good God. If you are a woman and you can't get your guy to have sex with you, you need lessons! It's really, really easy. Really easy. Lol!

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Good God. If you are a woman and you can't get your guy to have sex with you, you need lessons! It's really, really easy. Really easy. Lol!

Try pouring beer all over yourself.

 

[Muhammed]

Good God. If you are a woman and you can't get your guy to have sex with you, you need lessons! It's really, really easy. Really easy. Lol!

Are you going to post the video online when you give G.T. some lessons?

 

[Moonglow]

The bulge they go after is the wallet...

You've been talking to ChrisL on here too long....

His "bulge" isn't nearly large enough.

High maint. dames aren't either...

 

[Moonglow]

Good God. If you are a woman and you can't get your guy to have sex with you, you need lessons! It's really, really easy. Really easy. Lol!

Are you going to post the video online when you give G.T. some lessons?

And will GT post his receipts?

 

[Bonzi]

Good God. If you are a woman and you can't get your guy to have sex with you, you need lessons! It's really, really easy. Really easy. Lol!

Try pouring beer all over yourself.

That didn't work for Elisabeth Shue in Leaving Las Vegas.....