Baking a cake

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    After you have spent some time in a kitchen to bake a cake for a woman, what is the minimum you should expect in return from her?
    You don't bought that cake, but you really made it with your own hands.

    At what point would you say: "I'll never bake a cake again for you".

    Or would you bake a cake for a woman without any expectations, why would a man do such thing?
     
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    Your motivations of quid pro quo are fucked up for doing something nice for someone you supposedly love, but no surprise.
     
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    I asked questions, are you able to answer them?
    Are you a woman or a man?
     
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    I usually get a blowjob after I cook a good meal.
     
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    I know you asked a question. I'm telling you your motivations are fucked up. And, that I am not surprised.
     
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    I have pictures of the cake and I also have pictures of the return.
    Let's pretend it is a kiss (wasn't) you got in return, so wouldn't a man think: "That kiss I could also get without the cake, so why should I bake again?".

    Have you ever cooked in anticipation that you'll receive something in return?
     
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    If it is not family or life-time friends, I wouldn't do anything for anybody without expecting something in return. Giving something as present for birthday or such things, yes those things are normal and nothing special.

    So, we are talking past each other when you criticize my motivations.
     
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    I told an ex-girlfriend one time that I would bake her a cake if I could get into her pants and she said that was the same thing a guy named Harold had told her...:eek:
     
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    i simply expect a thank you
     
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    The only thing I ever anticipated after cooking a good meal, desert, etc for a woman was a compliment on the meal.
     
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