Cecilie1200
Diamond Member
I saw this dicussion and post on Facebook?
I saw this post on Facebook
"Their argument is that they aren't attracted to trans people, so they should have a right to know if a potential partner is trans before dating them. These people view transness as a mere physical quality that they just aren't attracted to.
The issue with this logic is that the person in question is obviously attracted to trans people, or else they wouldn't be worried about accidentally going out with one. So these people aren't attracted to trans people because of some physical quality, they aren't attracted to trans people because they are disgusted by the very idea of transness."
No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Trans Before Dating You
Now it looks like to me as if one is a bigot if he doesn't date a trans I would feel violated if I dated a trans as if someone raped me sorry I believe in live and let live (and pride myself to be tolerant and I also tolerate trans) but a trans is invading my private space by dating me under false pretenses. I dont want to date a trans.
Well, let me put it this way. You don't HAVE to tell anyone anything about your past before dating them. But you're going to have no one but yourself to blame when they eventually find out and kick your sorry, secret-keeping ass to the curb. And there's no amount of screaming, "Bigot!!! Bigoooootttt!!!" that's gonna put YOU on the moral high ground of that relationship.