Adultery

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    Done it? Had it done to you? Considering it?

    What is your stance on adultery?

    Here's mine (gained after a lifetime of sorrows of all sorts): There is no excuse. If you are unhappy, fix it or move on. Lying and cheating are so destructive to everyone involved they can never be justified.
     
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    I thought adultery was moving on.
     
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    Well, I guess we should define our terms. I'm not talking about starting up a new relationship after having left your spouse and filing for a divorce. I'm talking about the no-I'm-never-gonna-leave-you-gee-honey-why-are-you-so-suspicious type of adultery.
     
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    agreed.

    NO CHEATING or LYING!

    if you want to have sex with someone other than your WIFE/LIFE PARTNER/MATE then you OWE IT to them to be honest.
     
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    The means don't justify the ends, but sometimes it just happens. I think few people in a relationship suddenly wake up one day and decide "I'm going to go out and have an adulterous affair". Situations arise and a tug of war ensues. And there's often times a real toll on all parties involved.
     
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    Sometimes your clothes accidentially fall off and.....?

    C'mon, Mr. H. People choose their behavior.
     
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    People choose their behavior under extremely stressful conditions too. Let's not pretend that there are no biological or situational influences.

    Jesus was against it to btw.
     
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    It depends, if you're wife is ugly, go for it. If your wife is gorgeous, you're an idiot.
     
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    Not the hunter-gatherer motif again?
     
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    What a class act you are, hister.
     

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