Not only ate whites not allowed to discuss race, we aren't even allowed to defend ourselves against black racism .Have you ever considered allowing free speech in the race forum?
Allowing the worst black racists to have complete control over what people are allowed to say is inimical to the notion.
You have captured one of the major reasons why racism will continue to be a problem. When the terms of the discussion have been determined by one side and there is no safe space to discuss racism people will not engage in being truthful. If there is no truth then there can be no solutions.
In summary, white people are not permitted to discuss race.
My first experience with black privilege came back in the eighties. My wife and I were living in Oakland and our child was in the Oakland school district. He has a disability called ankylosing spondylitus which limits his mobility and athleticism
.He was one of only 5 white kids in a black schoolroom, and was picked on constantly by black kids who were taught to hate whites by those similar to some of those here. One time aafter a particularly brutal beat down when 5 black kids attacked him and called him a white faggot and whatnot, we went to the head of the Oakland school district only to be told that WE must be the racists.
This forum works on the same principle. In fact, I mentioned my son getting hurt earlier only to have a black poster taunt me by saying it made him happy my kid was hurt. Not ONE moderator here had the human decency to come to bat for me by at least applying the no family attack rule, and two even mocked me.
Being black gives people immunity. It is as simple as that .
I hate to hear when kids are bullied. Nothing fires up a parent more then when their children are being harmed physically or mentally. It is totally understandable why you have grown to feel the way you do. You're frustrated and don't feel like you are being heard. It's a familiar theme and one that most likely got Trump elected.
Even with that said, I have to disclose that I do believe that Trump is a racist.
Thanks for sharing you story. I hope you were able to find some resolution to your son's situation. No one should dread going to school.