That's not always true. Some men watched their fathers do it and they learned the behavior by example. Are you saying you wouldn't ever call out a guy who has beliefs about beating or raping women and tell him that's fucked up?
Beating and raping are two separate things. I still maintain the latter is a practice of psychopaths. You can't educate them. Maybe you could educate women that they are smaller and weaker and less aggressive and thus should be aware of their status and take protective actions?
As far as beating....is that a woman's issue ?