special pleading much? many guys turn down full body massage with happy ending. or, are all the women i have asked, merely lesbians.
Special pleading? WTF are you talking about? First you say you won't take women claiming to want equality until they come up and submit to you. Then its about bad boys getting it when good guys don't. Now, my answer to your post is "special pleading"? I did not ignore any part of your argument. In fact, you have offered damned little in the way of an argument. You just want women to offer themselves to you without having to do anything.
Yes, there are men who would turn down a full body massage with a happy ending. I hav no idea who you have asked, so I have no way of knowing if the women were lesbians or not.
But do you know these women well when you make the offer? Unless you appeal to them in some way, most women aren't going to get naked for you to put your hands on them. That is simply the way things work. You have to do whatever will make the woman WANT to offer her body to you.