I am not the one who wants a really really serious relations; without "putting in the work"; I just want to have fun practicing, for now.
Women claim to want really really serious "relationship bailouts" instead of just sex.
I tell you what, Daniel. I have a friend who is an attractive woman in her early 40s. She is just now getting into BDSM. She wants to be a good Dominatrix. She also travels a lot for work.
She needs practice. Would you be willing to trade your "free massage with a happy ending" for your practice for getting tied to a rack and letting her whip you with a cat o'nine tail?
Both of you can get the practice you need.