I'm pro-gay marriage. My point was that the gay movement goes too far at times and gives the anti-gay movement a target. And other pro-gay marriage posters agreed with me.
Whether you are pro-gay marriage or not, and whether anyone agrees with you or not is:
- not germane to anything discussed here
- inconsequential as goes whether you are accurate in implying that the intent of the behavior you've observed in Gay Pride parades constitutes gay folks "shoving a [their] sexuality in the face of an opponent."
FWIW, I'm not pro-marriage of any sort, so it follows that I'm also not pro gay marriage. I am very much in favor of people forming substantive and loving bonds as befits their circumstances, but I don't much care for those bonds needing to be sanctioned by a state in order to be recognized as valid.
One can engage in all manners of contractual relationships without those relationships being called a marriage. Such contracts need not even have any quality of love and caring between/among the parties to it. A child is still one's child, thus being due the care and attention from its parents, regardless of whether its parents be married.
If you think that barely-dressed men carrying massive artificial dicks down a public street is emblematic of that person's "identity", great.
No more than I think the costume and visage a school mascot or costumed person in any other parade, entertainment or celebratory event is emblematic of their identity. Folks dress up as vampires and kings and march in Halloween parades. That they do doesn't lead me to think they actually are indeed pagans, sanguisuges or royalty, or that they even identify with them in any meaningful way, much less to generalize about their character or what be or not their identity.
gay people are NOT like those who gleefully carry big dicks down the street
In what material ways are "gay people not like those [gay people] who gleefully carry" caricaturized images and representations of "anything" in a Gay Pride parade? It seems to me that they are all gay and that's about the beginning and end of any parallel one can rationally draw between the gay folks who are
in the parade and those gays folks who
are not in the parade.
Gay Pride parades, like most parades, are unique unto themselves. That the imagery one sees depicted in Gay Pride parades is sometimes hypersexualized and/or body-/body part focused is just what makes them different from the other kinds of parades that exist. That they occur in June is why folks, in the Northern Hemisphere at least, aren't wearing a lot clothing. (Remember that Gay Pride originated to commemorate/celebrate an event -- Stonewall Riots -- that occurred at the end of June.)
Gay Pride events in the Southern Hemisphere happen during a warm time of year too.
Were you to consider Gay Pride events with awareness of the context in which they occur instead of the context in which you want to put them, or the context in which you want them to fit/conform, you may not have as much of an issue with them.